{"id":516,"date":"2017-04-18T15:29:52","date_gmt":"2017-04-18T15:29:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/?p=516"},"modified":"2017-04-18T15:30:08","modified_gmt":"2017-04-18T15:30:08","slug":"kara-mediham","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/?p=516","title":{"rendered":"Kara Mediha\u2019m"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Annem\u2026<br \/>\nBenim d\u0131\u015f\u0131mda kimse anneme b\u00f6yle hitap etmez, edemez de zaten\u2026<br \/>\nSoner Beyin bug\u00fcnk\u00fc yaz\u0131s\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nAllah bu d\u00fcnyadaki t\u00fcm annelerin y\u00e2r ve yolda\u015f\u0131 olsun, Allah onlar\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdan eksik etmesin\u2026<br \/>\nAna \u2013 o\u011ful \u00e7ok kavgalar\u0131m\u0131z olmu\u015ftur, annem\u2026<br \/>\nMaazallah\u2026<br \/>\nSinirlenmesin, tepesi atmas\u0131n, \u00fct\u00fc, \u00e7aydanl\u0131k, b\u0131\u00e7ak \u2013 makas, terlik merlik dinlemez\u2026<br \/>\nYa\u015fa ba\u015fa da bakmaz, galiba en son 47-48 ya\u015flar\u0131nda anne daya\u011f\u0131 yemi\u015ftim\u2026<br \/>\nHa\u015flar insan\u0131!<\/p>\n<p>Hani\u2026<br \/>\nAnnelerin vurdu\u011fu veya \u00f6pt\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yerde g\u00fcl biter ya\u2026<br \/>\n\u00d6yle derler, cennet annelerin ayaklar\u0131 alt\u0131nda aynen \u00f6yle\u2026<br \/>\nKad\u0131n\u2026<br \/>\nHayat\u0131n tuzu \u2013 biberi. Ne onlarla ne onlars\u0131z\u2026<br \/>\nBenim en iyi dostum, en yak\u0131n arkada\u015f\u0131m, beni d\u00fcnyaya getirmesinin yani s\u0131ra, b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcp yeti\u015ftirmesinin, beni en iyi tan\u0131yan ve bilen insanlardan biri, hala\u2026<br \/>\nBu ya\u015fta veli nimetim bile diyebilece\u011fim bir insan, hayat\u0131mda \u00e7ok \u00f6zel yeri olan bir insan, bir kad\u0131n&#8230;<br \/>\nEksiklerimi, eksik kalan taraflar\u0131m\u0131 s\u00fcrekli doldurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir varl\u0131k\u2026<br \/>\nKimi zaman ak\u0131l hocam, bazen en iyi, en yak\u0131n arkada\u015f\u0131m\u2026<br \/>\nBuna ra\u011fmen her \u015fey anne ile payla\u015f\u0131lmaz, konu\u015fulmaz\u2026<br \/>\nE\u015f \u2013 dost, karde\u015f bile uzak, illa laz\u0131m insana y\u00fcre\u011fin s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131, yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nY\u00fcre\u011fin y\u00fcrekle birle\u015fti\u011fi, bir oldu\u011fu, illa laz\u0131m insana y\u00fcre\u011fi y\u00fcrek i\u00e7in \u00e7arpan insan.<\/p>\n<p>Soruyor \u201colabilir mi, \u00d6nder?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bu sorunun yan\u0131t\u0131na gelmeden \u00f6nce\u2026<br \/>\nHileli mileli, bo\u015f ver \u015fimdi bunlar\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nBu pezevengin oy oran\u0131nda \u00f6nemli bir yeri olan, mutlak potansiyel, bir nevi gizli kasa\u2026<br \/>\nYurtd\u0131\u015f\u0131 T\u00fcrklerine bir bakal\u0131m\u2026<br \/>\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bunun bilincinde olmak \u201cdireni\u015fte, dirili\u015fi\u201d kavraman\u0131n bir yolu\u2026<br \/>\nYurtd\u0131\u015f\u0131 T\u00fcrk\u2019\u00fcn\u00fcn, ortalama bildi\u011fin insan\u0131n sosyoloji ve psikolojisi\u2026<br \/>\nTabii ne sosyolo\u011fum ne psikolog\u2026<br \/>\nSalt g\u00f6zlem, sadece\u2026<br \/>\nG\u00f6zlemlerim.<\/p>\n<p>Kabaca \u00fc\u00e7 guruba ay\u0131rabiliriz bu insanlar\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nBirinci grup \u00f6yle diyeyim ki s\u0131ralaman\u0131n hi\u00e7bir \u00f6nemi yoktur, bizim gibi insanlar, az\u0131nl\u0131ktalar\u2026<br \/>\nBir milyon \u00fc\u00e7 y\u00fcz bin ile \u00fc\u00e7 milyon aras\u0131 olduklar\u0131 s\u00f6yleniyor\u2026<br \/>\nBak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131, koydu\u011fun kriterlere, T\u00fcrkiye\u2019den gelen insanlar olarak de\u011ferlendirdi\u011finde yakla\u015f\u0131k \u00fc\u00e7 milyon. Co\u011frafi da\u011f\u0131l\u0131m\u0131 ki y\u00fczde sekseni Anadolu (Karadeniz b\u00f6lgesi dahil) veya G\u00fcneydo\u011fu Anadolu k\u00f6kenli. E\u011fitim d\u00fczeyi ki birinci neslin \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc ancak okur \u2013 yazar, bir\u00e7o\u011fu bunu bile bilmeyenlerden olu\u015fuyordu. \u00c7o\u011funun mesleki e\u011fitimi, yani bati d\u00fczeyinde bir e\u011fitimi yoktu.<br \/>\n\u0130kinci nesil\u2026<br \/>\nYani benim neslim, az ama k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenmeyecek bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc ancak ilkokul d\u00fczeyi, geneli ortaokul veya az bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc lise ve \u00fcst\u00fc. \u00c7ok \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr\u2026<br \/>\nYeti\u015fen \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc ve d\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc nesilde bu oranlar tam tersi geli\u015fmekte. Gelelim yeti\u015fti\u011fin ortam ve \u00e7evre meselesine\u2026<br \/>\nHani ku\u015f yuvada g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc yapar der ya atalar, aynen \u00f6yle\u2026<br \/>\nBirinci nesil bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr \u015foku ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f, bu travmaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f ve \u201ckal\u0131t\u0131m yolu\u201d ile ikinci ve \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc nesille yans\u0131m\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Hani hep paralel, paralel diye tutturuyor ya kuduz k\u00f6pekler\u2026<br \/>\nAlmanya\u2019da\u2026<br \/>\nYakla\u015f\u0131k elli sene i\u00e7eresinde paralel bir toplum olu\u015fturdular. Bu insanlar\u2026<br \/>\n\u0130kinci grubu olu\u015fturmakta\u2026<br \/>\nYakla\u015f\u0131k toplam T\u00fcrk say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n en az\u0131ndan y\u00fczde yetmi\u015fi\u2026<br \/>\nKendi berberlerinden tut, bakkallar\u0131na kadar kendilerine has bir d\u00fcnyalar\u0131 var. Camii\u2026<br \/>\nCamileri bile ayr\u0131 ayr\u0131\u2026<br \/>\n&gt;&gt;&gt; Domuz topu &lt;&lt;&lt; gibi ki domuz kelimesini \u00f6zellikle kuland\u0131m, aynen \u00f6yle domuz topu gibi gettolarda &#8211; varo\u015flarda, bir arada ya\u015f\u0131yorlar. \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc gurup ise\u2026<br \/>\nBirinci gurup gibi bir az\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olu\u015fturuyor\u2026<br \/>\nK\u00f6k ve ba\u011flar\u0131ndan kopar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f veya bilin\u00e7li olarak kopmu\u015f insanlar\u2026<br \/>\nAsl\u0131nda ne T\u00fcrk ne Alman\u2026<br \/>\nEvlerinde bile Almanca konu\u015fanlar, b\u0131rak konu\u015fmay\u0131, bir Alman siyaset\u00e7inin s\u00f6z\u00fcd\u00fcr\u2026<br \/>\n\u201cR\u00fcyan\u0131 bile Almanca g\u00f6receksin\u201d<br \/>\nAynen \u00f6yle. Bu insanlar kay\u0131p insanlar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r, kay\u0131p (\u2026)<\/p>\n<p>Anlayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u2026<br \/>\nM\u00fccadelemiz, kazanmak veya ilelebet kendimizden soyutlamam\u0131z gereken insanlar ikinci gurubu olu\u015fturmaktad\u0131r. K\u00f6r cahil desen de\u011fil\u2026<br \/>\nK\u00f6k\u00fcnden kopmu\u015f, evsiz \u2013 barks\u0131z ayak tak\u0131m\u0131 desen de\u011filler\u2026<br \/>\nHastal\u0131kl\u0131 bir ruh, hastal\u0131kl\u0131 bir hayat anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na sahipler\u2026<br \/>\nEzilmi\u015fler, hani Victor Hugo\u2019nun Sefilleri\u2026<br \/>\nO misal\u2026<br \/>\nKendi hayatlar\u0131ndaki ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131, ortama uyamamalar\u0131, eziklikleri, komplekslerinin aynadaki aksi\u2026<br \/>\nRecep Tayyip Erdo\u011fan, hani d\u00fcnya lideri dedikleri\u2026<br \/>\nBir yerlere gelmeyi ba\u015farm\u0131\u015f ya, kendilerini onunla \u00f6zde\u015fle\u015ftiriyorlar\u2026<br \/>\nOnun ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131, onlar\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131, futbol misali, ayni sosyolojik ve psikolojik olgular\u0131 fanatik taraftarlarda veya salt futbol severlerde de g\u00f6zlemleyebiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Peki, \u2026<br \/>\nBu insanlar\u0131 nas\u0131l kazanabiliriz?<br \/>\nGenel anlamda insan kazanman\u0131n yolu \u00fc\u00e7 kaide \u00fczerinde oturmu\u015ftur\u2026<br \/>\n&#8211; ya c\u00fczdana\u2026<br \/>\n&#8211; ya beynine, ruhuna, vicdana\u2026<br \/>\n&#8211; veya kalbe hitap edeceksin\u2026<br \/>\nKendine \u201cayd\u0131n\u201d diyen, kendine Atat\u00fcrk\u00e7\u00fc diyen insan\u2026<br \/>\nBu insanlara kendilerine olan \u00f6zg\u00fcven ve \u00f6zsayg\u0131y\u0131 geri kazand\u0131rmal\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nHayatin, tarihin ve istikbalin getirdi\u011fi, getirece\u011fi ger\u00e7eklilikten \u015fa\u015fmamal\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nBelki bu yol ile bir araya gelme, bir olmay\u0131 ba\u015farabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Yani\u2026<br \/>\nBiz, kendimiz bile do\u011fruya do\u011fru, yalana yalan, kediye kedi, h\u0131rs\u0131za h\u0131rs\u0131z\u2026<br \/>\nPezevenge, pezevenk, orospuya orospu diyebilmeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p>Olabilir mi?<br \/>\n\u0130n\u015fallah onun dedi\u011fi gibi olur, in\u015fallah AMA sanmam\u2026<br \/>\nTrump\u2026<br \/>\nErdo\u011fan\u2019\u0131 bo\u015funa aramad\u0131. Herife ta May\u0131s\u2019ta randevu veren\u2026<br \/>\nBuna gerek g\u00f6rmez. Kald\u0131 ki\u2026<br \/>\nNerde Erdo\u011fan\u2019da o \u00f6ng\u00f6r\u00fc, o bilgi birikimi, o zek\u00e2 ki on be\u015f seneden beri \u00fclkeyi bir maceradan di\u011ferine s\u00fcr\u00fckleyebilecek, e\u011fer olmasa\u2026<br \/>\nEvet olmasa bir \u00fcst zek\u00e2?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Annem\u2026 Benim d\u0131\u015f\u0131mda kimse anneme b\u00f6yle hitap etmez, edemez de zaten\u2026 Soner Beyin bug\u00fcnk\u00fc yaz\u0131s\u0131\u2026 Allah bu d\u00fcnyadaki t\u00fcm annelerin y\u00e2r ve yolda\u015f\u0131 olsun, Allah onlar\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdan eksik etmesin\u2026 Ana \u2013 o\u011ful \u00e7ok kavgalar\u0131m\u0131z olmu\u015ftur, annem\u2026 Maazallah\u2026 Sinirlenmesin, tepesi atmas\u0131n, \u00fct\u00fc, \u00e7aydanl\u0131k, b\u0131\u00e7ak \u2013 makas, terlik merlik dinlemez\u2026 Ya\u015fa ba\u015fa da bakmaz, galiba en son &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/?p=516\" class=\"more-link\"><span class=\"screen-reader-text\">\u201eKara Mediha\u2019m\u201c<\/span> weiterlesen<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/516"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=516"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/516\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":518,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/516\/revisions\/518"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=516"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=516"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=516"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}