{"id":28033,"date":"2019-09-08T08:48:59","date_gmt":"2019-09-08T08:48:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/?p=28033"},"modified":"2019-09-08T08:48:59","modified_gmt":"2019-09-08T08:48:59","slug":"ince-bir-cizgidir-cok-ince-sogan-zari-kadar-kadin-olmak-bir-denge-meselesidir-erkekte-erkekse-kadinini-el-uestuende-tasir-ama-ne-erkek-erkek-ne-kadin-kadin-davul-bile-dengi-dengine-ancak-duesm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/?p=28033","title":{"rendered":"\u0130nce bir \u00e7izgidir, \u00e7ok ince, so\u011fan zar\u0131 kadar. KADIN OLMAK bir denge meselesidir. Erkekte erkekse kad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 el \u00fcst\u00fcnde ta\u015f\u0131r. AMA ne erkek, erkek ne kad\u0131n, kad\u0131n. Davul bile dengi dengine ANCAK d\u00fc\u015fmez birbirine!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Annelik sadece \u00e7ocuk do\u011furmak de\u011fildir!<\/strong><br \/>\n28 A\u011fustos 2019 <\/p>\n<p>\u2018\u2018Yine bir kad\u0131n cinayeti!&#8220; demek istemiyorum.<br \/>\n\u2018\u2018Bu bir insanl\u0131k su\u00e7u!&#8220; diyorum.<br \/>\nS\u0131rf gururu incindi diye bir insan ba\u015fka bir insan\u0131n can\u0131n\u0131 alamaz! Bunun sebebi, bahanesi olamaz!<br \/>\nK\u0131r\u0131kkale\u2019de, 4 y\u0131l \u00f6nce bo\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 eski e\u015fi Emine Bulut\u2019u kendisine hakaret ve k\u00fcf\u00fcr etti\u011fi gerek\u00e7esiyle 10 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funun g\u00f6zleri \u00f6n\u00fcnde vah\u015fice \u00f6ld\u00fcren Fedai Varan gibi y\u00fczlercesi sokaklarda dola\u015f\u0131yor.<br \/>\nBu ki\u015filer sadece kad\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 de\u011fil toplum d\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131d\u0131r.<br \/>\nMaalesef yetersiz kanunlar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden bu toplum d\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131 almalar\u0131 gereken cezay\u0131 alm\u0131yor ve k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre sonra ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n can\u0131n\u0131 yakmak \u00fczere tekrar aram\u0131za kat\u0131l\u0131yorlar. \u0130lk yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken \u015fey yasalar\u0131n bir an \u00f6nce de\u011fi\u015ftirilip, cayd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131.<br \/>\nKad\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuk katillerine, \u00e7ocuk tacizcilerine af ve indirim kalkmal\u0131 ki etraf\u0131m\u0131z biraz olsun bu pisliklerden temizlensin!<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u00dclkemizde binlerce kad\u0131na, \u00e7ocu\u011fa her g\u00fcn \u015fiddet uygulan\u0131yor.<br \/>\nHi\u00e7 ummad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015filer evlerinde kar\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6v\u00fcyor ya da psikolojik \u015fiddet uyguluyor.<br \/>\nKapal\u0131 kap\u0131lar ard\u0131nda eziyet g\u00f6ren kad\u0131nlar ve \u00e7ocuklar korkudan susuyor. Buna \u015fahit olan di\u011ferleri de erke\u011fi ailenin, yani kad\u0131n\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n sahibi olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerinden susuyorlar.<br \/>\nYasalar yetersiz! \u0130nsanlar\u0131m\u0131z e\u011fitimsiz!<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u00dclkemizde hi\u00e7 erkek \u015fiddetine maruz kalmadan 40 ya\u015f\u0131na gelmi\u015f kad\u0131n var m\u0131d\u0131r acaba?<br \/>\n\u0130\u015fin trajik yan\u0131 kendilerine eziyet eden, d\u00f6ven, s\u00f6ven ve isterse \u00f6ld\u00fcren bu adamlar\u0131 kad\u0131nlar kendi elleriyle yeti\u015ftiriyorlar.<br \/>\nErkek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flarda annelerine, k\u0131z karde\u015flerine h\u00fckmedip, eziyet edecekleri \u015fekilde b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcl\u00fcyorlar.<br \/>\nDaha k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flarda k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 erkeklerin k\u00f6leleri, o\u011fullar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da onlar\u0131n efendisi yap\u0131yoruz.<br \/>\nOysa anneler sadece \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmiyorlar, ayn\u0131 zamanda toplumu da \u015fekillendiriyorlar.<br \/>\n\u00d6yleyse ayd\u0131n ve d\u00fczg\u00fcn bir toplum i\u00e7in ilk olarak kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 e\u011fitmemiz gerekmiyor mu?<br \/>\n***<br \/>\nAld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ufac\u0131k ve \u00f6nemsiz bir alet i\u00e7in bile kullanma k\u0131lavuzu verilirken, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck ya\u015fta \u00e7ocuk do\u011furup anne olmu\u015f kad\u0131nlar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 yeti\u015ftirirken kendi ba\u015flar\u0131na b\u0131rak\u0131l\u0131yor, hi\u00e7bir e\u011fitime tabi tutulmuyorlar.<br \/>\nAraba kullanmak i\u00e7in bile \u00f6nce kursa gidilip, belli bir e\u011fitimden ge\u00e7tikten sonra ehliyet verilirken; evlenecek \u00e7iftlere hi\u00e7bir e\u011fitim verilmiyor, hi\u00e7bir \u015fart aranm\u0131yor.<br \/>\nToplumun \u00e7ekirde\u011fini olu\u015fturan aileyi kurmak i\u00e7in hi\u00e7bir zihinsel ya da psikolojik test gerekmiyor!<br \/>\nSonu\u00e7 ortada!<br \/>\n\u00d6nemli olan say\u0131sal olarak \u00e7o\u011falmak de\u011fil, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir topluma sahip olmaksa, \u00f6nce kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 e\u011fitmeliyiz.<br \/>\nEvlilik \u00e7ocuk oyunca\u011f\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi; annelik de sadece \u00e7ocuk do\u011furmak de\u011fildir! \u0130kisi i\u00e7in de e\u011fitim ve ehliyet gereklidir!<br \/>\n#kad\u0131na\u015fiddetehay\u0131r #eminebulut<\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/www.sozcu.com.tr\/2019\/yazarlar\/annelik-sadece-cocuk-dogurmak-degildir-5304403\/<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Annelik sadece \u00e7ocuk do\u011furmak de\u011fildir! 28 A\u011fustos 2019 \u2018\u2018Yine bir kad\u0131n cinayeti!&#8220; demek istemiyorum. \u2018\u2018Bu bir insanl\u0131k su\u00e7u!&#8220; diyorum. S\u0131rf gururu incindi diye bir insan ba\u015fka bir insan\u0131n can\u0131n\u0131 alamaz! Bunun sebebi, bahanesi olamaz! K\u0131r\u0131kkale\u2019de, 4 y\u0131l \u00f6nce bo\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 eski e\u015fi Emine Bulut\u2019u kendisine hakaret ve k\u00fcf\u00fcr etti\u011fi gerek\u00e7esiyle 10 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funun g\u00f6zleri \u00f6n\u00fcnde &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/?p=28033\" class=\"more-link\"><span class=\"screen-reader-text\">\u201e\u0130nce bir \u00e7izgidir, \u00e7ok ince, so\u011fan zar\u0131 kadar. KADIN OLMAK bir denge meselesidir. Erkekte erkekse kad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 el \u00fcst\u00fcnde ta\u015f\u0131r. AMA ne erkek, erkek ne kad\u0131n, kad\u0131n. Davul bile dengi dengine ANCAK d\u00fc\u015fmez birbirine!\u201c<\/span> weiterlesen<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28033"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=28033"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28033\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28034,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28033\/revisions\/28034"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=28033"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=28033"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=28033"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}