De\u011fil\u2026
\nHele Nazizm ile ilgisi alakas\u0131 yok\u2026
\nBir nevi \u00f6zlem, hasret mi mesele?
\nBilin\u00e7alt\u0131n\u0131n\u2026
\nEksikli\u011fi giderme hali?
\nEvet, bu olmal\u0131!<\/p>\n
Kesin olan\u2026
\nNadiren g\u00f6zlemleyebilece\u011fimiz bir durum oldu\u011funu san\u0131yorum\u2026
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir\u00e7ok fakt\u00f6r\u00fcn bir araya gelmesi gerekiyor ki g\u00f6zlemlenebilsin.<\/p>\n
Hangi ailede\u2026
\nHangi be\u015fer\u00ee ili\u015fkide \u201c\u00e7at\u0131\u015fma\u201d olmuyor ki?
\nM\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil bu, m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil\u2026
\n\u0130nsani bir davran\u0131\u015f \u015feklidir, her \u015fey her daim g\u00fcl\u00fck g\u00fclistanl\u0131k olamaz!<\/p>\n
\u00c7at\u0131\u015fma durumu bir nevi alan kazanma alan savunma durumudur\u2026
\n\u201cDar ortamlarda\u201d insani \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar daha \u00e7ok g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi, \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131k durumuna d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir\u2026
\nAzal\u0131r, \u201calan\u201d geni\u015fledik\u00e7e.<\/p>\n
Mesele\u2026
\n\u0130nsani yak\u0131nl\u0131kt\u0131r!<\/p>\n
Ayn\u0131 durum hayvanlar \u00e2leminde de g\u00f6zlemlenebilir\u2026
\nBu durum fen bilimleri ile de izah edilebilir, evet FEN\u2026
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc do\u011fa\u2026
\nDenge \u00fczerine kurulmu\u015ftur!<\/p>\n
😊
\nDo\u011fru (d\u00fcz) ak\u0131mda…
\nTeknik olarak elektronlar (cereyan dedi\u011fimiz) art\u0131ndan eksiye\u2026
\nFizik a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan eksiden art\u0131ya do\u011fru akar!<\/p>\n
T\u00fcm anneler biriciktir, bir tane\u2026
\nT\u00fcm anneler \u00f6zeldir\u2026
\nHerkesin annesi en de\u011ferlisi\u2026
\nAma\u2026
\nAnneden anneye fark var, cahili var\u2026
\n\u0130lgisizi var\u2026
\n\u00d6rne\u011fin a\u011f\u0131r bedensel veya ruhsal hastas\u0131 var\u2026
\nYani\u2026
\nVar Allah var!<\/p>\n
Rabbimden niyaz\u0131m, Allah T\u00dcM anneleri korusun\u2026
\nTabii annelerin k\u0131zlar\u0131 olur, o\u011fullar\u0131\u2026
\nPayla\u015fmak kolay m\u0131?<\/p>\n
Haliyle olacak s\u00fcrt\u00fc\u015fme\u2026
\nGelin, kaynana aras\u0131nda\u2026
\nHaliyle.<\/p>\n
Mesela benim valide\u2026
\nYeminle, anlaman\u0131z i\u00e7in asl\u0131nda tan\u0131man\u0131z laz\u0131m kad\u0131n\u0131\u2026
\nDedim ya var Allah var diye\u2026
\nVe yine atas\u00f6z\u00fcd\u00fcr, derler ki gelin\u2026
\nKaynana topra\u011f\u0131ndan olur!<\/p>\n
Babaannem\u2026
\nRahmetli, ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc >>> fedak\u00e2r <<< bir anneydi\u2026
\nOla\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc\u2026
\nVe her anne \u2013 baba gibi meyli vard\u0131, zaaf\u0131\u2026
\n\u00c7ocuklar\u0131ndan birine\u2026
\nYazar\u0131m, dedim ya ac\u0131mas\u0131z ger\u00e7ek\u00e7iyim diye\u2026
\nDo\u011fruya do\u011fru\u2026
\nHalam\u0131n, rahmetlinin, babam\u0131n \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck hatalar\u0131 oldu\u2026
\n\u0130hmal ettiler annelerini\u2026
\nMehmet (amcam olur kendisi) en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckleri, Almanlar der\u2026
\nNesth\u00e4kchen\u2026
\nAlt\u0131ntop hikayesi, babaannemin \u00e7ok fazla zaaf\u0131 vard\u0131 Mehmet\u2019e.<\/p>\n
Girdi aile birbirine.<\/p>\n
Benim valide\u2026
\nZaaf\u0131 karde\u015fe, k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na genel olarak bir zaaf\u0131 vard\u0131r\u2026
\nBILIRIM\u2026
\nBenim yerim g\u00f6z\u00fcnde \u00e7ok farkl\u0131d\u0131r\u2026
\nKimseyle payla\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 benimle payla\u015f\u0131r, dert orta\u011f\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Benim sevdi\u011fimi O da sever, de\u011fer verdi\u011fime de\u011fer verir.<\/p>\n
Bunlar\u0131 yaz\u0131yorum ki anlayas\u0131n\u0131z demek istediklerimi\u2026
\nVe\u2026
\n\u00c7ocu\u011funa tamamen ilgisiz anneler\u2026
\nBabalarda var maalesef\u2026
\nBu t\u00fcr insanlar neden \u00e7ocuk yapar\u2026
\nAnlayabilmi\u015f de\u011filim, ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmd\u00fcr \u00fcst\u00fcnde\u2026
\n\u0130nsan\u2026
\nBilmez mi kendini, \u00e7ocu\u011fa olan ilgisini\u2026
\nBenim d\u00fcnyam mesela \u00e7ocuklar\u2026
\nHele hele 0 \u2013 3 ya\u015f aras\u0131ndaki halleri\u2026
\n\u00d6l\u00fcr\u00fcm ya \u00f6l\u00fcr\u00fcm onlar i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n
K\u0131z\u0131 ba\u015fka erke\u011fi ba\u015fka olur\u2026
\nB\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e sevin\u00e7, mutluluk h\u00fcz\u00fcne d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
Onlar ile birlikte dertlerde b\u00fcy\u00fcr\u2026
\nHep s\u00f6ylerim, hep dedi\u011fimdir\u2026
\nBir problem varsa ortada \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm orada\u2026
\nAMA\u2026
\nSorunu anlaman \u015fart\u0131yla\u2026
\nYoksa\u2026
\nU\u011fra\u015f\u0131r durursun semptomlarla.<\/p>\n
Ve \u00fclkemizde tamda bu durum ya\u015fanmakta\u2026
\nY\u0131llardan beri u\u011fra\u015f\u0131r\u0131z semptomlarla…
\nSorunun k\u00f6kenini bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc anlam\u0131\u015f bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc temeline inebilmi\u015f de\u011filiz.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklarda \u00f6rne\u011fin bu durumu \u00e7ok g\u00fczel g\u00f6zlemleyebiliriz\u2026
\nEminim\u2026
\nHer birimizin hayat\u0131na olmu\u015ftur b\u00f6yle bir d\u00f6nem, anne ve baba aras\u0131nda\u2026
\nBir huzursuzluk, bir karga\u015fa\u2026
\n\u015eiddet konular\u0131na hi\u00e7 girmeyelim ama ge\u00e7imsizlik neticesinde\u2026
\n\u00c7ocuklarda bir endi\u015fe, korku\u2026
\nAnne \u2013 babam ayr\u0131lacak m\u0131 sorusu!<\/p>\n
Evlenmek Allah\u2019\u0131n emri\u2026
\nO halde ge\u00e7imsizlik sonucun da bo\u015fama, ayr\u0131lmada olmal\u0131 Allah\u2019\u0131n takdiri\u2026
\nGel de bunu \u00e7ocu\u011fa anlat\u2026
\n\u00dclkemizdeki korkular ile k\u0131yaslayabiliriz\u2026
\nTek dil, tek bayrak\u2026
\nTek vatan misali!<\/p>\n
\u0130nsan\u2026
\nKorktuk\u00e7a, \u00f6zellikle korktuk\u00e7a\u2026
\nYa\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anl\u0131yor, ac\u0131 \u00e7ektik\u00e7e, korku \u00e7ok ama \u00e7ok g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir d\u00fcrt\u00fc\u2026
\n\u00dcST\u00dc\u2026
\nBu d\u00fcrt\u00fcn\u00fcn sevgi, korku ve sevgi insanlara neler neler yapt\u0131rm\u0131yor ki?<\/p>\n
D\u00fcn D\u2026
\n\u00d6teki mesele, Allah\u2019\u0131n izniyle\u2026
\nAllah\u2019\u0131n izniyle, izin vermem, vermeyece\u011fim\u2026
\nAllah yazd\u0131ysa bozsun, en g\u00fczeli yazmam\u0131\u015f olsun.<\/p>\n
Ve biliyorsunuz\u2026
\nDIKKAT\u2026
\nEVET, hayvanlarda bu duygudan mustarip\u2026
\nH\u00fcrrem mesela delirdi Tar\u00e7\u0131n gelince\u2026
\n\u0130kisi birden \u00f6nceleri Jack\u2019e, Tar\u00e7\u0131n bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k kendisiyle, Jack ile\u2026
\nH\u00fcrrem\u2026
\nKar\u0131 milleti, YOK insan\u0131, kedisi\u2026
\nKabul etmiyor Jack\u2019i!<\/p>\n
K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131ktan bahis ediyorum\u2026
\nYine olduk\u00e7a g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir d\u00fcrt\u00fc\u2026
\n\u0130nsana da \u00f6zg\u00fc, bence \u00e7a\u011f\u0131m\u0131z insana, kendine \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f diyene yak\u0131\u015fmayan bir davran\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imi. Almanlar der\u2026
\nNidere Instikte\u2026
\nAMA\u2026
\nHer birimiz, her birimiz ta\u015f\u0131yoruz i\u00e7imizde bu duygu manzumesini\u2026
\n\u0130\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcleri\u2026
\nTeee ilk \u00e7a\u011flardan kalma d\u00fcrt\u00fcleri.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsan\u0131z de\u011fil mi? Geldik konunun bamteline\u2026 Hah\u2026 De\u011fil\u2026 Hele Nazizm ile ilgisi alakas\u0131 yok\u2026 Bir nevi \u00f6zlem, hasret mi mesele? Bilin\u00e7alt\u0131n\u0131n\u2026 Eksikli\u011fi giderme hali? Evet, bu olmal\u0131! Kesin olan\u2026 Nadiren g\u00f6zlemleyebilece\u011fimiz bir durum oldu\u011funu san\u0131yorum\u2026 \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir\u00e7ok fakt\u00f6r\u00fcn bir araya gelmesi gerekiyor ki g\u00f6zlemlenebilsin. Hangi ailede\u2026 Hangi be\u015fer\u00ee ili\u015fkide \u201c\u00e7at\u0131\u015fma\u201d olmuyor ki? M\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil bu, m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil\u2026 \u0130nsani bir davran\u0131\u015f \u015feklidir, her … <\/p>\n
\nRabbin kulu\u2026
\nEvrenin, bu d\u00fcnyan\u0131n birer mensubu\u2026
\nO halde\u2026
\nKendimizi > denge < denilen evren \u2013 d\u00fcnya d\u00fczeninden soyutlayabilir miyiz?
\nMUTLAKA\u2026
\nAma mutlaka bir denge arar\u0131z, bilin\u00e7li, bilin\u00e7siz\u2026
\nKimi zaman i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcsel kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131z dengeyi!<\/em><\/p>\n
\nBir tarafta a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 denilebilecek derecede ilgili bir anne\u2026
\nDi\u011fer tarafta tam tersi\u2026
\nG\u00f6r\u00fcr insan g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u2026
\nG\u00d6R\u00dcYOR\u2026
\nEn aptal\u0131m\u0131z, en cahilimiz bile his ediyor aradaki fark\u0131\u2026
\nVe Rabbin yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 olarak\u2026
\nD\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen bir varl\u0131k olarak soruyor insan kendine\u2026
\nNIYE?<\/p>\n
\nBu niye\u2026
\nKimi insanlarda d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir bir \u201cd\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131\u011fa\u201d
\nDIKKAT\u2026
\nBuray\u0131 anlaman\u0131z \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli\u2026
\n\u00c7ok, \u00e7ok\u2026
\n\u00c7ok derin varl\u0131k, insan psikolojisi\u2026
\n\u00c7ok uzad\u0131\u2026
\nNeden \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na b\u00f6yle davran\u0131yor da bana kar\u015f\u0131 daha farkl\u0131 davran\u0131yor sorusu\u2026
\nKEMIRIR insan\u0131n i\u00e7ini, herkesi de\u011fil. Dedim ya kimi \u00f6zel durumlar gelmeli bir araya\u2026
\nD\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmez ki insan\u2026
\nG\u00f6remez \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bu insan \u00f6nceleri AYNEN sana da b\u00f6yle davrand\u0131\u2026
\nG\u00f6remez, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnemez \u00e7o\u011fu zaman\u2026
\nKendi hatalar\u0131n\u0131\u2026
\n\u201cD\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k\u201d ile k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k aras\u0131nda gidip gelirken\u2026
\nTanzim etmek, denkle\u015ftirmek ister duygu d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131\u2026
\nTam da bu noktada girer \u00d6nder araya\u2026
\nAllah\u2019\u0131n izni ile g\u00f6sterir, g\u00f6stermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u2026
\nTedavisi kesin olmal\u0131d\u0131r\u2026
\nKar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 yap\u0131lan yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131, hatalar\u0131\u2026
\nUnutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r ki\u2026
\nMadalyonun her zaman iki y\u00fcz\u00fc vard\u0131r, ikisini de g\u00f6rmeli\u2026
\n\u0130kisini de!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"