Hayat\u0131mda en korktu\u011fum en \u00e7ekindi\u011fim \u015feylerdendir\u2026
\nRezillik, terbiyesizlik, ba\u015fkalar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda davran\u0131\u015f b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcmden dolay\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015fmek\u2026
\nK\u00e2busum\u2026
\nKaybetmek, yok maddi \u2013 manevi kay\u0131plar\u0131 kast etmiyorum, insan kaybetmek, can kaybetmek\u2026
\nG\u00f6n\u00fcl yitirmek!<\/p>\n
Tabii ki maddi kay\u0131plar benim i\u00e7in a\u011f\u0131r sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furabilir, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fam\u0131yorum\u2026
\nEl dedi\u011fin ekmek tutmaz, kafa de\u011fdin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaz oldu\u2026
\nHaf\u0131zam\u0131 hi\u00e7 sormay\u0131n daha iyi, halimi!<\/p>\n
D\u00fcn\u2026
\n\u201cBizim\u201d evde \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc d\u00fcnya sava\u015f\u0131 koptu\u2026
\nGecenin saat \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnde yukar\u0131 kattan \u00f6yle ses, \u00f6yle g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcler geldi ki\u2026
\nGece yar\u0131s\u0131 camlar a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131, e\u015fyalar, bavullar camdan at\u0131ld\u0131. G\u00fcnd\u00fcz g\u00f6z\u00fcyle bah\u00e7eye bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda bir s\u00fcr\u00fc foto\u011fraf, fatura, e\u015fyalar \u00e7imen \u00fcst\u00fcnde\u2026
\nG\u00fcnd\u00fcz\u2026
\nValide ile benim aramda ge\u00e7en, neredeyse kavgaya varan y\u00fcksek sesli tart\u0131\u015fma\u2026
\nAnnedir\u2026
\nB\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm, sayg\u0131da ve sevgide ASLA kusur etmem. Rahmetli peder, hastanedeyken\u2026
\nKendimi \u00f6vmek i\u00e7in yazm\u0131yorum, nedenini in\u015fallah sonra anlars\u0131n\u0131z\u2026
\nGidememi\u015ftim, ge\u00e7mi\u015f zaman nedenini de hat\u0131rlam\u0131yorum, annem, babam\u0131n yan\u0131nda, hastanede\u2026
\nSormu\u015f; \u201cNerede benim en hakikatli evlad\u0131m?\u201d
\nVe \u00e7ok gerek\u00e7eli neden vard\u0131\u2026
\nEn az\u0131ndan sorabilirdim \u201cBaba, neden?\u201d
\nAsla ve kata yapmad\u0131m. Anneme, babama kar\u015f\u0131 terbiyesizlik, b\u00fcy\u00fck bildiklerime kar\u015f\u0131 sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k!<\/p>\n
Abartarak yaz\u0131yorum\u2026
\nKad\u0131nca\u011f\u0131z\u0131n okumad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kitap kalmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r bu d\u00fcnyada, kitap kurdu kavram\u0131n\u0131n v\u00fccut bulmu\u015f hali\u2026
\nBuna ra\u011fmen anlam\u0131yor, alg\u0131layam\u0131yor\u2026
\nK\u00fcplere biniyor, k\u0131z\u0131yor ama nas\u0131l, KORKUYOR\u2026
\nOrospu \u00e7ocu\u011fu diyormu\u015fum\u2026
\nPezevenk diyormu\u015fum\u2026
\n\u00d6lm\u00fc\u015f bir kad\u0131n\u0131n ard\u0131ndan b\u00f6yle konu\u015fulur muymu\u015f\u2026
\nHele hele \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015f bir insan\u0131n ard\u0131ndan b\u00f6yle konu\u015fmak ne insanl\u0131\u011fa ne herhangi bir terbiyeye s\u0131\u011far!<\/p>\n
Do\u011fru mu?
\nDo\u011fru!!!<\/p>\n
Anlatam\u0131yorum ki kad\u0131na meram\u0131m\u0131, derdimi\u2026
\nAnnem anlamad\u0131ktan sonra bizim ahali haydi haydi anlamaz!<\/p>\n
Kavramlar ve tan\u0131mlar, kelimelerin anlam\u0131\u2026
\nHukuken \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u2026
\nMesleki a\u00e7\u0131dan, noktan\u0131n, virg\u00fcl\u00fcn g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc, etkisini, anlam\u0131n\u0131 bilmez miyim hi\u00e7?
\nSevdice\u011fim bile\u2026
\nKorktu\u011fu i\u00e7in olsa gerek, kad\u0131n\u2026
\nPezevenk kelimesi i\u00e7in \u201c\u00e7areler\u201d arad\u0131. Hep demi\u015fimdir ona\u2026
\nHukuki a\u00e7\u0131dan sorumlulu\u011funu ta\u015f\u0131yamayaca\u011f\u0131m kelimeleri kullanmam\u2026
\nBenim i\u00e7in hapis demek, hele helle Tayyipistanda \u00d6L\u00dcM demek\u2026
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendi d\u00f6rt duvar\u0131mda a\u011fr\u0131lar i\u00e7inde k\u0131vran\u0131yorum, yatak d\u00f6\u015fek her \u015fey \u201cemrimde\u201d
\n\u0130la\u00e7lar\u0131m\u2026
\nUyu\u015fturucuyu hi\u00e7bir \u015fekilde vermiyorlarm\u0131\u015f duydu\u011fuma g\u00f6re\u2026
\nEn a\u011f\u0131r hastalara bile ki ben a\u011fr\u0131n, a\u011fr\u0131y\u0131m\u2026
\nG\u00fcn geliyor, bir saniyeden \u00f6tekine ac\u0131dan d\u00fcz duvarlar\u0131 t\u0131rman\u0131yorum\u2026
\nK\u0131sacas\u0131 girsem bile i\u00e7eriye, oradan kolay kolay sa\u011f salim \u00e7\u0131kmam.<\/p>\n
Bilincinde miyim?
\nEvet, her t\u00fcrl\u00fc\u2026
\nSusacak m\u0131y\u0131m?
\nHay\u0131r!<\/p>\n
Gidece\u011fim\u2026
\nHi\u00e7 \u00e7aresi yok, e\u015fim, evlad\u0131m beni bekler\u2026
\nYa\u015f ve \u00f6l\u00fcm y\u0131ld\u00f6n\u00fcmlerinde, onlara ka\u015f\u0131 t\u00fcm sorumluluk ve y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fcklerimi yerine getirip\u2026
\nHayat denilen muammaya buralarda tekrar at\u0131laca\u011f\u0131m. <\/p>\n
Y\u0131kmal\u0131 m\u0131y\u0131z t\u00fcm Camileri?
\nBu soruyu \u00e7ok sormu\u015fumdur kendime\u2026
\nEvet, y\u0131k\u0131lmal\u0131!
\nY\u00fcrek dedi\u011fin, niyet\u2026
\nTemiz ise Allah her yerde!!!<\/p>\n
Dualar buralardan da cennet vatandan da ula\u015f\u0131r g\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcne.<\/p>\n
Yine de gitmem gerek, bakmal\u0131y\u0131m kara topra\u011fa\u2026
\nO an\u2026
\n\u0130\u00e7imde tarifsiz bir huzur, \u00e7ukurum hemen sevdam\u0131n yan\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda, i\u00e7ini toprak doldurdular yine\u2026
\nA\u00e7arlar iki dakikada. \u00d6l\u00fcm benim i\u00e7in uzun bir hasretten sonra tekrardan kavu\u015fma.<\/p>\n
Orostopol\u2026
\nOrospu \u00e7ocu\u011fu, pezevenk\u2026
\nAsosyal\u2026
\nEtimoloji\u2026
\nKelimelerin anlam ve i\u00e7eri\u011fi.<\/p>\n
Konuyla ilgili bir f\u0131kra:<\/p>\n
Temel\u2019le Dursun bir g\u00fcn banka soymaya karar verirler. Ancak tam ka\u00e7arken arkalar\u0131ndan gelen polis ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131r:<\/p>\n
Sak\u0131n k\u0131m\u0131ldama orospu \u00e7ocu\u011fu!<\/p>\n
Temel, Dursun\u2019a d\u00f6ner:
\nSen ka\u00e7 Tursun, penu tan\u0131dular!<\/p>\n
Asl\u0131nda kullanmam gereken, do\u011fru olan kelime asosyal\u2026
\nAsosyal ne demektir?
\nStres, depresyon, hayat \u015fartlar\u0131 ama \u00f6zellikle \u00e7ocuklukta ya\u015fanan kimi \u201cyanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar\u201d diyeyim insan \u00fczerinde, topluma kar\u015f\u0131 veya toplum i\u00e7eresinde gayri ihtiyari, \u201cnormal\u201d olarak kabul edilmeyen davran\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imi, alg\u0131lay\u0131\u015f ve anlay\u0131\u015f \u015fekillerinin meydana gelmesini tetikler. Ki\u015finin, toplum i\u00e7eresindeki davran\u0131\u015f \u015feklinin t\u00fcm\u00fc yani. Aile i\u00e7indeki bireylerin birbirine kar\u015f\u0131 olan ili\u015fki ve davran\u0131\u015f b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn, kendi ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 kendinden g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz olanlardan \u00e7\u0131karmak gibi davran\u0131\u015f bozukluklar\u0131 ki bilindi\u011fi \u00fczere\u2026
\nCahil veya fanatik bir ki\u015fili\u011fin en iyi yapabildi\u011fi tahrip etmek, bozmak, y\u0131kmakt\u0131r ve bu karakter \u00f6zellikleri \u00e7ocuk ya\u015fta olu\u015fur ve kal\u0131c\u0131 \u00f6zellik ta\u015f\u0131maktad\u0131r. Sosyopati ve psikopati gibi kavramlar ve ki\u015filik bozukluklar\u0131 \u201cre\u015fit\u201d olduktan sonra, yani 18 ya\u015f \u00fcst\u00fc g\u00f6zlemlenir.
\nS\u00fcrekli bir kavga hali, normlara uyum sa\u011flama, aldatmak, doland\u0131rmak ve yalan beli ba\u015fl\u0131 \u00f6zellikleri aras\u0131ndad\u0131r. K\u0131sacas\u0131 bir ki\u015filik bozuklu\u011fudur. Ve bu ki\u015filik bozuklu\u011funun temelleri genelde \u00e7ocuklu\u011funda aranmal\u0131d\u0131r. <\/p>\n
Aile terbiyesi, aile g\u00f6rg\u00fcs\u00fc karde\u015fim, g\u00f6rg\u00fc\u2026
\nVe \u00e7ocuk ya\u015fata almaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n terbiye\u2026
\nKimdir \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftiren?
\nAna\u2026
\nTerbiyeyi veren baba!<\/p>\n
Ara\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131m, sevdice\u011fin dedi\u011fine g\u00f6re pezevenk demek Azarice\u2026
\n\u201c\u0130\u015f adam\u0131\u201d bir sayg\u0131nl\u0131k ifadesiymi\u015f\u2026
\nBizde\u2026
\nY\u00fcz k\u0131zart\u0131c\u0131 bir durum olan kar\u0131 \u2013 k\u0131z pazarlama. Para kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ba\u015fka erkeklere bu kad\u0131nlar\u0131n v\u00fccutlar\u0131n\u0131 pazarlama. Pezevenkli\u011fin\u2026
\nCinsiyeti yoktur, biri pezevenk di\u011feri mama\u2026
\nBana g\u00f6re\u2026
\nPara kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ha kar\u0131 \u2013 k\u0131z satm\u0131\u015f\u0131n, ha vatan \u2013 millet, mal ve m\u00fclk\u00fcn\u00fc, topra\u011f\u0131n\u0131, istikbalini.<\/p>\n
Orostopol\u2026
\nOrospu \u00e7ocu\u011fu ki bu yola d\u00fc\u015fen bir kad\u0131n\u0131n genelde \u00e7oluk \u2013 \u00e7ocu\u011fu ile ilgilenme, onu gerekti\u011fi gibi yeti\u015ftirmeye vakti yoktur. \u00c7ocuk\u2026
\n\u0130le terbiye ve g\u00f6rg\u00fcs\u00fc alma ihtimali \u00e7ok azd\u0131r, genelde sokak \u201ck\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc\u201d ile yeti\u015fir. Mecazi anlamda kad\u0131n\u0131n v\u00fccudunu pazarlamas\u0131na bile gerek yoktur. Evlat yeti\u015ftirmede \u00fcst\u00fcne d\u00fc\u015fen vazifeyi, ge\u00e7erli gerek\u00e7elerle yerine getirmeyen insan karakteri ki\u2026
\nBu kavram\u0131n \u201cbir\u201d di\u011fer anlam\u0131; al\u00e7ak, serseri, hilek\u00e2r\u2026
\nVeya ki\u015finin pi\u00e7 olmas\u0131d\u0131r!<\/p>\n
Franklin Roosevelt, Nikaragua diktat\u00f6r\u00fc Somoza i\u00e7in \u015fu ifadeyi kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 rivayet olunur:
\n\u201cO bir orospu \u00e7ocu\u011fu ama O bizim orospu \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz!\u201d<\/p>\n
Ehhh\u2026
\nBizim de bir\u00e7ok \u201cbizim\u201d orospu \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz var!
\n\u015e\u00f6yle\u2026
\nVurgulayarak, \u00fcst\u00fcne basa basa\u2026
\nOrrrospuuu \u00e7ocu\u011fuuu!<\/p>\n
Evet kan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 emen\u2026
\nGelece\u011fimizi pazarlayan, evlatlar\u0131n can\u0131n\u0131, mal\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7e sayan\u2026
\nS\u00f6yleeeeeeeeeee\u2026
\n\u00dcmmetti M\u00fcslim\u2019in s\u00f6yle\u2026
\nRezillikten korkmayan, y\u00fcz k\u0131zarmas\u0131 nedir bilmeyen\u2026
\nUtanmak denilen \u015feyi bilmeyenden\u2026
\nMillet\u2026
\nBa\u011f\u0131ra ba\u011f\u0131ra kendisine HIRSIZ dedi\u011finde\u2026
\nPismi\u015f kelle gibi s\u0131r\u0131tan y\u00fczs\u00fczden\u2026
\nEhli M\u00fcsl\u00fcm olur mu?<\/p>\n
Evet\u2026
\nY\u0131kmal\u0131 bu Camileri y\u0131kmal\u0131\u2026
\nBize\u2026
\nAllah\u2019\u0131, kelam\u0131n\u0131, peygamberlerini, \u00f6\u011fretilerini\u2026
\nOlmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi gibi \u00f6\u011fretmeyen mek\u00e2nlar\u0131 y\u0131kmal\u0131.<\/p>\n
Benim Allah\u2019\u0131m, benim Tanr\u0131m\u2026
\n\u015eefkatli\u2026
\nYaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 kula sevgi dolu, koydu\u011fu, Onun koydu\u011fu kurallara uymal\u0131\u2026
\nO\u2026
\nHer yerde, ihtiya\u00e7 duymam Ona seslenmek i\u00e7in bir mek\u00e2n\u2026
\nEvim, d\u00f6rt duvar\u0131m, yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 tabiatta onu g\u00f6r\u00fcr, ondan dilerim rahmet\u2026
\nOna d\u00f6kerim i\u00e7imi, ondan isterim destek\u2026
\nBenim Allah\u2019\u0131m\u2026
\nHo\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc, anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131, af edici\u2026
\nO\u2026
\nBilmez mi benim ba\u015f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k kar\u0131m\u0131n, k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n i\u00e7ini\u2026
\nAhlak\u0131n\u0131, bana sadakatini, kendisine kar\u015f\u0131 samimi ve i\u00e7ten gelen iman\u0131?
\nBilmez mi?<\/p>\n
Yok arkada\u015f yok\u2026
\nBen pezevenge, pezevenk, orospu \u00e7ocu\u011funa, orospu \u00e7ocu\u011fu\u2026
\nKediye, kedi, h\u0131rs\u0131za h\u0131rs\u0131z derim\u2026
\nDemeye devam edece\u011fim.<\/p>\n
Bu herif\u2026
\nBu kendini bilmez serseri ve zibidi\u2026
\nZihniyeti\u2026
\nDevlet mi y\u00f6netiyor?<\/p>\n
Yoksaaa\u2026
\n\u0130\u015f adam\u0131 m\u0131?
\nHangi ahlak?
\nHangi terbiye, g\u00f6rg\u00fc, hangi\u2026
\nVicdan\u2026
\nM\u00fcsaade eder devlet y\u00f6netti\u011fi veya devlet ad\u0131na, millet ad\u0131na\u2026
\nKarar merciinde otururken\u2026
\n\u015eahsi i\u015fi, i\u015f pe\u015finde, para pe\u015finde ko\u015fturmay\u0131?
\nTakip\u00e7ili\u011fi???<\/p>\n
Hep tahmindi\u2026
\nMilyarlar\u2026
\nAMA\u2026
\nAlmanlar a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131, Alman devleti\u2026
\nErdo\u011fan ve kabilesi\u2026
\n120 milyon Euro sahibi!<\/p>\n
Ya hesap ve kitab\u0131n\u0131 bile yapt\u0131m, ar\u015fivlerim meydanda\u2026
\nAld\u0131\u011f\u0131 maa\u015f ile IMKANSIZ\u2026
\nB\u00f6yle bir servet, imk\u00e2ns\u0131z!<\/p>\n
Bu\u2026
\nBilinen, ya bilinmeyenler?<\/p>\n
G\u00fcnlerdir yay\u0131nlayaca\u011f\u0131m, k\u0131smet bug\u00fcneymi\u015f\u2026
\nU\u011fur D\u00fcndar Beyin yaz\u0131s\u0131\u2026
\nSay\u0131n D\u00fcndar, duayen bir gazeteci\u2026
\nBir \u201ckurum\u201d, nerdeyse kurulu\u015f diyece\u011fim geliyor\u2026
\nB\u00f6yle bir insan\u2026
\nB\u00f6ylesine ciddi bir gazeteci, elinde belge olmasa b\u00f6yle \u015feyleri yazar m\u0131?
\nH\u0131rs\u0131z\u2026
\nSadece \u015fahsen h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k yapan de\u011fildir, HIRSIZ, h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa te\u015fvik eden\u2026
\nH\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6z yumand\u0131r ayn\u0131 zamanda\u2026
\nM\u00fcsl\u00fcman ise\u2026
\nBile bile b\u00f6yle bir h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ki TEKRAR\u2026
\nBunlar \u201cbilinen\u201d ya bilmediklerimiz?
\nO \u015ferefli makamlar\u0131 >>> i\u015fgal <<< etmez!\n\n\n\nNot: U\u011fur Beyin yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ayriyeten yay\u0131nlayaca\u011f\u0131m, bir \u00fcste olan olacak. \u00c7ok uzun oldu. \n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hayat\u0131mda en korktu\u011fum en \u00e7ekindi\u011fim \u015feylerdendir\u2026 Rezillik, terbiyesizlik, ba\u015fkalar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda davran\u0131\u015f b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcmden dolay\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015fmek\u2026 K\u00e2busum\u2026 Kaybetmek, yok maddi \u2013 manevi kay\u0131plar\u0131 kast etmiyorum, insan kaybetmek, can kaybetmek\u2026 G\u00f6n\u00fcl yitirmek! Tabii ki maddi kay\u0131plar benim i\u00e7in a\u011f\u0131r sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furabilir, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fam\u0131yorum\u2026 El dedi\u011fin ekmek tutmaz, kafa de\u011fdin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaz oldu\u2026 Haf\u0131zam\u0131 hi\u00e7 sormay\u0131n daha iyi, halimi! D\u00fcn\u2026 … <\/p>\n