{"id":24640,"date":"2019-06-26T12:45:57","date_gmt":"2019-06-26T12:45:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/?p=24640"},"modified":"2019-06-26T12:48:11","modified_gmt":"2019-06-26T12:48:11","slug":"pasam-ne-cok-isterdim-anlattiklarinin-goezlem-degil-bilimsel-verilere-dayanmasini-somut-gerceklere-beni-yazmaktan-anlatmaktan-kurtarmis-olacaktin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/?p=24640","title":{"rendered":"Pa\u015fam, ne \u00e7ok isterdim anlatt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6zlem de\u011fil, bilimsel verilere dayanmas\u0131n\u0131. SOMUT GER\u00c7EKLERE, beni yazmaktan, anlatmaktan kurtarm\u0131\u015f olacakt\u0131n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tabii \u015fimdi bu sat\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 okuyacak olan yazd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 esas alacak, ger\u00e7ek sanacak\u2026<br \/>\nX Ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nBenim ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131m mesela, kusura bakma \u0130zmirlim ama baya\u011f\u0131 bir yanl\u0131\u015fs\u0131n, yanl\u0131\u015f\u2026<br \/>\nHele\u2026<br \/>\nZ ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n EN TEMEL, EN \u00d6ZG\u00dcN &gt; sorununa &lt; de\u011finmemi\u015fsin ki ona \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fcm\u2026<br \/>\nYine de &gt; g\u00f6zlemlerinin &lt; kimisi do\u011fru tespitlerdir, vaktim oldu\u011funda geri kalan\u0131 ya ekler veya d\u00fczeltirim.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Helikopter anneler ve y ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131\u2026<\/strong><br \/>\n26 Haziran 2019<\/p>\n<p>Akp&#8217;nin neden g\u00fcmb\u00fcr g\u00fcmb\u00fcr gitti\u011fini dilimiz d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnce anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k, inand\u0131ramam\u0131\u015ft\u0131k, tekrar gayret edelim.<br \/>\n\u2605<br \/>\n1930-40 aras\u0131nda d\u00fcnyaya gelenlere \u201csessiz ku\u015fak\u201d deniyor.<br \/>\nSava\u015flar, k\u0131tl\u0131klar, ekonomik ve siyasi krizler, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7ilesini \u00e7ektiler desek, yanl\u0131\u015f olmaz.<br \/>\nGelenekselcidirler, risk sevmezler, i\u015f ahlak\u0131 en y\u00fcksek ku\u015fakt\u0131r.<br \/>\nT\u00fcrkiye&#8217;nin y\u00fczde 5&#8217;ini olu\u015fturuyorlar.<br \/>\n\u2605<br \/>\n1940&#8217;l\u0131 50&#8217;li y\u0131llarda d\u00fcnyaya gelenlere \u201cbaby boomer\u201d deniyor.<br \/>\nAmerikal\u0131lar\u0131n icat etti\u011fi bir terim\u2026 \u0130kinci D\u00fcnya Sava\u015f\u0131 bitiyor, gelece\u011fe dair umutlarda \u00e7i\u00e7ekler a\u00e7\u0131yor, adeta d\u00fcnyada yeniden hayat ba\u015fl\u0131yor, do\u011fum h\u0131z\u0131nda \u201cpatlama\u201d ya\u015fan\u0131yor, yani \u201cbaby boom\u201d oluyor.<br \/>\nBaby boomer nesline ait insanlar\u0131m\u0131z, \u015fu anda 60&#8217;l\u0131 70&#8217;li ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcr\u00fcyor.<br \/>\nHi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphesiz istisnalar vard\u0131r ama, ortak \u00f6zellikleri teknolojiden uzak olmalar\u0131d\u0131r\u2026 Yeti\u015fme \u00e7a\u011flar\u0131nda, evlerinde i\u015flerinde, hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131racak cihazlar yoktu, kendi i\u015flerini kendileri yapmaya al\u0131\u015f\u0131kt\u0131rlar.<br \/>\nYa\u015famak i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmad\u0131lar, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak i\u00e7in ya\u015fad\u0131lar, i\u015f sadakatleri inan\u0131lmazd\u0131r.<br \/>\nHem \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na, hem ana-babalar\u0131na bakmak zorunda kalan nesildiler. Mecbur insan&#8217;d\u0131lar. Kanaat etme duygular\u0131 y\u00fcksektir.<br \/>\nT\u00fcrkiye&#8217;nin y\u00fczde 21&#8217;ini olu\u015fturuyorlar.<br \/>\n\u2605<br \/>\n1960&#8217;l\u0131 70&#8217;li y\u0131llarda d\u00fcnyaya gelenlere \u201cx nesli\u201d deniyor.<br \/>\n\u015eu anda 40&#8217;l\u0131 50&#8217;li ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcr\u00fcyorlar.<br \/>\nOtoriteye uyumlu ebeveynler taraf\u0131ndan yeti\u015ftirildiler, bu y\u00fczden otoriteye sayg\u0131l\u0131d\u0131rlar, aidiyet duygular\u0131 y\u00fcksektir.<br \/>\nDisiplinlidirler. \u0130\u015flerinde sab\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131rlar, \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlarsa, y\u00fckselebileceklerine inan\u0131rlar. \u0130\u015fleri, hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n tamam\u0131n\u0131 kaplar. Bu nedenle birden fazla i\u015fle me\u015fgul olma yetenekleri pek yoktur, hobileri yoktur, genellikle \u201chobim var\u201d diyebilmek i\u00e7in hobi edinirler.<br \/>\nTeknolojik icatlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011funa bizzat \u015fahitlik etmi\u015flerdir, bula\u015f\u0131k makinesinden bilgisayara, cep telefonundan internete, hemen hepsini, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla ayn\u0131 anda g\u00f6r\u00fcp kullanm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. \u0130ster istemez, teknolojiye adapte olma konusunda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n gerisinde kalm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r.<br \/>\nA\u011f\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 olarak ebeveyn konumunda olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in, t\u00fcm ya\u015f gruplar\u0131 aras\u0131nda al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fe en fazla b\u00fct\u00e7e ay\u0131ran ve bu y\u00fczden ekonomideki dalgalanmalar\u0131 en \u00e7ok hisseden ku\u015fakt\u0131r.<br \/>\nT\u00fcrkiye&#8217;nin y\u00fczde 22&#8217;sini olu\u015fturuyorlar.<br \/>\n\u2605<br \/>\n1980&#8217;li 90&#8217;l\u0131 y\u0131llarda d\u00fcnyaya gelenlere \u201cy nesli\u201d deniyor.<br \/>\n\u015eu anda 20&#8217;li 30&#8217;lu ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcr\u00fcyorlar.<br \/>\n\u00c7a\u011f atlayan nesil i\u015fte bu\u2026 Ku\u015faklar aras\u0131ndaki farkl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n en fazla hissedildi\u011fi nesil.<br \/>\nBireysel \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fcklerine d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnd\u00fcrler, ailelerini \u015f\u00fcphesiz seviyorlar ama, aileden ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z olmak istiyorlar.<br \/>\nPara, tapu, mal m\u00fclk biriktirmek i\u00e7in ya\u015famak istemiyorlar, g\u00fczel ya\u015famak i\u00e7in \u201cyeterince\u201d \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak istiyorlar. Bu nedenle, bir an \u00f6nce y\u00f6netici olmak i\u00e7in, bir an \u00f6nce kendi i\u015flerini kurmak i\u00e7in, \u00e7ok s\u0131k i\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftiriyorlar.<br \/>\nEbeveynleri, yani x ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 e\u015fe\u011fi sa\u011flam kaz\u0131\u011fa ba\u011flarken, y ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 i\u015f bulmadan i\u015ften ayr\u0131labiliyor, gemileri daha kolay yak\u0131yor.<br \/>\nEbeveynlerine g\u00f6re \u00e7ok daha iyi e\u011fitimliler ve ger\u00e7ek\u00e7iler, k\u00fct diye s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorlar, ac\u0131mas\u0131zca ele\u015ftiriyorlar.<br \/>\nOtorite sevmiyorlar, kendilerine kural dayat\u0131lmas\u0131na katlanam\u0131yorlar, sa\u00e7mal\u0131\u011fa tahamm\u00fcl edemiyorlar, kendilerinden yap\u0131lmas\u0131 istenen bir i\u015fin sa\u00e7ma olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, yap\u0131lmaya de\u011fer olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, onlar a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan hayati \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131yor.<br \/>\nX ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 sevmese bile sayg\u0131 duyarken, y ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 sevmezse sayg\u0131 duymuyor.<br \/>\nSosyal medyan\u0131n kendilerine verdi\u011fi sanal \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck sayesinde, g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerini dile getirme kabiliyetleri \u00e7ok y\u00fcksek\u2026<br \/>\nSporu illa sporcu olmak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, bireysel beklentiyle, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ya\u015fam i\u00e7in yap\u0131yorlar. Sanata illa k\u00fclt\u00fcrl\u00fc olmak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, akranlar\u0131 aras\u0131ndaki rekabet nedeniyle yakla\u015f\u0131yorlar.<br \/>\nZaman\u0131 \u00e7ok iyi kullan\u0131yorlar, ayn\u0131 g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde hem \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p hem e\u011flenebiliyorlar, ertelemiyorlar, s\u0131raya koymuyorlar.<br \/>\nBu ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131n en \u00f6nemli \u00f6zelli\u011fi \u201chelikopter anneler\u201d taraf\u0131ndan yeti\u015ftirilmi\u015f olmalar\u0131\u2026 X ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131na mensup helikopter anneler, \u00e7ocu\u011fun herhangi bir sorunu oldu\u011funda g\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcnden iner gibi iniyor, sorunu hallediyor, tekrar yukar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor, g\u00f6zlemlemeye devam ediyor, y ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131ndan ba\u015fka hi\u00e7bir ku\u015fak b\u00f6ylesine m\u00fcthi\u015f bir deste\u011fe sahip olmad\u0131, bu y\u00fczden anne-babalar\u0131yla en \u00e7ok \u201carkada\u015f\u201d olabilen ku\u015fak, y ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nX ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 t\u00fcketimle farkl\u0131 olmak isterken, mesela, kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 model telefonun sadece kendisinde olmas\u0131n\u0131 isterken, giydi\u011fi ayakkab\u0131n\u0131n sadece kendisinde olmas\u0131n\u0131 isterken, y ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 b\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyor, tam tersine, t\u00fcketimde benze\u015fmek istiyor, en \u00e7ok kullan\u0131lan telefon modelini kullan\u0131yor, en \u00e7ok giyilen spor ayakkab\u0131y\u0131 giyiyor, farkl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fcr\u00fcnde, markada, \u015firkette aram\u0131yor, farkl\u0131 \u00fcr\u00fcnleri kullanan ayn\u0131 insanlardan olmak istemiyor, ayn\u0131 \u00fcr\u00fcnleri kullanan farkl\u0131 insanlardan olmak istiyor. Bu sayede rengarenkler, ku\u015faklar aras\u0131nda farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 en zengin ku\u015fak, y ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131\u2026<br \/>\n\u00c7ok yarat\u0131c\u0131lar, yenilik\u00e7iler.<br \/>\n\u0130statistiklere bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, elbette bu bir teori ama, ku\u015faklar\u0131n 100 y\u0131lda bir kendini tekrarlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor, sistem de\u011fi\u015ftiren devrimcilerin \u00e7o\u011funun y ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131na denk geldi\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor.<br \/>\nT\u00fcrkiye&#8217;nin en kalabal\u0131k ya\u015f grubunu, y\u00fczde 35&#8217;ini olu\u015fturuyorlar.<br \/>\n\u2605<br \/>\n2000&#8217;den sonra d\u00fcnyaya gelenlere \u201cz nesli\u201d deniyor.<br \/>\nBug\u00fcn en b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fc 19 ya\u015f\u0131nda.<br \/>\nDi\u011fer t\u00fcm nesillerden farkl\u0131 olarak internet teknolojisiyle do\u011fdular, oyuncak sevmiyorlar, ipad t\u00fcrevleriyle oynuyorlar, sosyal medya \u00fczerinden sosyalle\u015fiyorlar.<br \/>\nBebekliklerinden itibaren internet kulland\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in, ayn\u0131 anda \u00fc\u00e7 be\u015f konuyla ilgilenebilme yetenekleri var. Sinema seyrederken twitterdan mesaj atabiliyorlar, sizi dinlerken ba\u015fka yere bakabiliyorlar, sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k yap\u0131yor zannediyorsunuz, halbuki kula\u011f\u0131 sizde oluyor.<br \/>\nT\u00fcm nesiller aras\u0131nda fikirleri en \u00e7abuk t\u00fcketen nesildir, \u00e7ok be\u011fenirken, hemen ertesi g\u00fcn s\u0131k\u0131labilirler.<br \/>\nDi\u011fer ku\u015faklara oranla, en ya\u015fl\u0131 ebeveynlere sahip ku\u015fakt\u0131r.<br \/>\nGeleneksel y\u00f6ntemlerle e\u011fitebilmek \u00e7ok zordur, bireysel e\u011fitimlerinin \u00f6nemli b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc internetten ald\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in, neyi bildiklerini neyi bilmediklerini asla kestiremezsiniz.<br \/>\nDuayen reklamc\u0131lar\u0131 bile k\u0131skand\u0131racak seviyede slogan \u00fcreten, \u201cher \u015fey \u00e7ok g\u00fczel olacak Ekrem abi\u201d diyerek, 25 senelik Akp saltanat\u0131n\u0131 yerle bir eden 16 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Berkay mesela, bu ku\u015faktan\u2026<br \/>\nT\u00fcrkiye&#8217;nin y\u00fczde 17&#8217;sini olu\u015fturuyorlar.<br \/>\n\u2605<br \/>\n2020&#8217;den itibaren d\u00fcnyaya gelecek olanlara \u201calfa ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131\u201d denilecek. Daha konformist, daha sab\u0131rs\u0131z, daha aceleci olmalar\u0131 bekleniyor.<br \/>\n\u2605<br \/>\nToplum b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey.<br \/>\n\u2605<br \/>\nDevinim halinde s\u00fcrekli geli\u015fiyor, farkl\u0131la\u015f\u0131yor, al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar be\u011feniler istekler beklentiler davran\u0131\u015flar de\u011fi\u015fiyor.<br \/>\n\u2605<br \/>\nAsr\u0131n liderimiz baby boomer.<br \/>\nBinali bey baby boomer.<br \/>\nEkrem \u0130mamo\u011flu x ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131.<br \/>\nKu\u015faklar\u0131 bile farkl\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nAkp&#8217;nin kavrayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7ek bu.<br \/>\n\u2605<br \/>\nElbette her ya\u015f grubundan insanlar oy verdi ama, a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor ki\u2026<br \/>\nEkrem \u0130mamo\u011flu&#8217;nu y ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ve helikopter anneler ba\u015fkan yapt\u0131.<br \/>\n\u2605<br \/>\ny ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131&#8217;n\u0131n ve helikopter annelerin dahil oldu\u011fu x ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131&#8217;n\u0131n toplumu etkileme g\u00fcc\u00fc, ya\u015flar\u0131 itibariyle, en az 20 y\u0131l devam edecek.<br \/>\n\u2605<br \/>\n\u0130ktidar k\u00f6rl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcyle hayat\u0131n bu ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz d\u00f6ng\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc unutanlar\u0131n, memleket ger\u00e7eklerine \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretebilmesi, toplumun taleplerine cevap verebilmesi imkans\u0131zd\u0131r.<br \/>\n\u2605<br \/>\nAkp h\u00e2l\u00e2 raftad\u0131r ama, son kullanma tarihi dolmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/www.sozcu.com.tr\/2019\/yazarlar\/yilmaz-ozdil\/helikopter-anneler-ve-y-kusagi-5198330\/<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tabii \u015fimdi bu sat\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 okuyacak olan yazd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 esas alacak, ger\u00e7ek sanacak\u2026 X Ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131\u2026 Benim ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131m mesela, kusura bakma \u0130zmirlim ama baya\u011f\u0131 bir yanl\u0131\u015fs\u0131n, yanl\u0131\u015f\u2026 Hele\u2026 Z ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n EN TEMEL, EN \u00d6ZG\u00dcN &gt; sorununa &lt; de\u011finmemi\u015fsin ki ona \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fcm\u2026 Yine de &gt; g\u00f6zlemlerinin &lt; kimisi do\u011fru tespitlerdir, vaktim oldu\u011funda geri kalan\u0131 ya ekler veya d\u00fczeltirim. &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/?p=24640\" class=\"more-link\"><span class=\"screen-reader-text\">\u201ePa\u015fam, ne \u00e7ok isterdim anlatt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6zlem de\u011fil, bilimsel verilere dayanmas\u0131n\u0131. SOMUT GER\u00c7EKLERE, beni yazmaktan, anlatmaktan kurtarm\u0131\u015f olacakt\u0131n\u201c<\/span> weiterlesen<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24640"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=24640"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24640\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24643,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24640\/revisions\/24643"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=24640"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=24640"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=24640"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}