Nas\u0131l ki T\u00fcrk bir kimlik bunal\u0131m\u0131ndaysa, ne istedi\u011fini, hangi yolu tutaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, aidat\u0131 ve ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, hangi tarafa ait oldu\u011fu hakk\u0131nda bir fikir sahibi de\u011filse\u2026
\nM\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar da bu kimlik bunal\u0131m\u0131 ya\u015famakta.<\/p>\n
\u00dcz\u00fcl\u00fcyorum\u2026
\n\u00dcz\u00fclmekle birlikte biliyorum ki bu bunal\u0131mlar, bu zor s\u00fcre\u00e7 kendini bulma, benli\u011fini kazanma yolunda gerekli!<\/p>\n
\u0130nsan psikolojisi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131nda bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, yani birey baz\u0131nda, bireyden yola \u00e7\u0131karak bu olguyu bireyin mensubu oldu\u011fu topluma yans\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z manzaray\u0131 insan\u0131n ergenlik \u00e7a\u011f\u0131 ile k\u0131yaslayabiliriz. Nas\u0131l ki bir gen\u00e7 \u00e7ocukluk safhas\u0131ndan yeti\u015fkinlik \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na ge\u00e7i\u015fte zorluklar ya\u015f\u0131yorsa VE \u00d6ZELLIKLE \u00e7evresi taraf\u0131ndan tenkit, nasihat gibi asl\u0131nda iyi niyetli \u201cy\u00f6nlendirmelere\u201d maruz kal\u0131yorsa
\nToplumlarda bu safhalardan ge\u00e7mek zorunda.
\n\u00d6rne\u011fin Hristiyanl\u0131kta ya\u015fanan 30 senelik sava\u015f (Katolik \u2013 Protestan sava\u015f\u0131) Hristiyanlar\u0131n \u201ckendilerini bulmalar\u0131nda, birbirlerini bulma ve anlamada\u201d \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir rol oynam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Hat\u0131rl\u0131 okuyucular\u0131m bilirler y\u0131llardan beri savundu\u011fum bir tezdir; Hristiyanl\u0131k ve M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanl\u0131k aras\u0131ndaki d\u00fcz hesap 600 senelik fark insan ve toplum a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan, benli\u011fini, ki\u015fili\u011fini bulmak a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir zaman dilimidir. K\u0131sacas\u0131\u2026
\nHristiyanlar, bizlerin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 >>> her \u015feyi <<< bir \u015fekilde ya\u015fay\u0131p, yeti\u015fkinli\u011fin getirdi\u011fi tecr\u00fcbe safhas\u0131na ge\u00e7erek, olgunla\u015fma \u2013 durulma\u201d a\u015famas\u0131na ge\u00e7tiler.
\nBen mesela, alenen, uluorta ilan ettim;
\nMezhebim yok benim!<\/p>\n
E\u015fhed\u00fc en la ilahe illallah ve e\u015fhed\u00fc enne Muhammeden abd\u00fch\u00fc ve resul\u00fch\u00fc<\/p>\n
Elhamd\u00fclillah, M\u00fcsl\u00fcman bir ana \u2013 baban\u0131n AMA IYI AMA K\u00d6T\u00dc yine M\u00fcsl\u00fcman bir evlad\u0131y\u0131m\u2026
\nAMA\u2026
\nMezhep\u00e7ili\u011fi tan\u0131m\u0131yorum, t\u0131pk\u0131 Atat\u00fcrk milliyet\u00e7ili\u011fi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda T\u00fcrk milliyet\u00e7ili\u011fini tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m gibi!!!<\/p>\n
Sorun\u2026
\nProblem, sesiz \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fun sesini \u00e7\u0131karmamas\u0131nda!<\/p>\n
G\u00f6r\u00fcyorum\u2026
\nG\u00f6r\u00fcyorum ya g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum, ya\u015f\u0131yorum\u2026
\nHem orada hem burada, dil ile elhamd\u00fclillah M\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131m, milliyet\u00e7iyim(!???)
\nUygulamada\u2026
\n\u2026!<\/p>\n
B\u00f6yle ne M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanl\u0131k ne milliyet\u00e7ilik olur\u2026
\nBa\u015f\u0131na bir pa\u00e7avra sarmakla ne namus, namus ne ahlak, ahlak ne M\u00fcsl\u00fcman, M\u00fcsl\u00fcman olur\u2026
\nVe bir\u00e7ok insan sesiz sedas\u0131z dini inan\u00e7lar\u0131ndan, milli duygulardan uzakla\u015fmakta\u2026
\n\u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc yitirmekte\u2026
\nDini ve milliyet\u00e7i duygular, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya ka\u00e7mamak \u015fart\u0131 ile insana benli\u011fini, ki\u015fili\u011fini\u2026
\nG\u00fcven\u2026
\nVe yerini, konumunu bulmada \u00f6nemli birer yard\u0131mc\u0131, destek, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla gereklidir. <\/p>\n
Laiklik ilkesi ise\u2026
\nToplumsal ya\u015famda bir nevi d\u00fczenleyici, frenleyici bir \u201cg\u00f6rev\u201d \u00fcstlenerek bireyin, bireyselli\u011fini ya\u015fayabilme teminat\u0131d\u0131r!<\/p>\n
L\u00fctfen\u2026
\nKim olursa olsun, hangi taraf\u0131n y\u00f6nlendirmelerine maruz kal\u0131rsan\u0131z kal\u0131n\u2026
\nSiz, siz olun\u2026
\nIman\u2019\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, inan\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 insan oldu\u011funuzu, sadece birer insan oldu\u011funuzu unutmadan, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya ka\u00e7madan y\u00fcre\u011finizde muhafaza ediniz. \u00c7ok \u015fey kaybettik dostlar\u2026
\n\u00c7ok \u00f6nemli de\u011ferleri\u2026
\nBizi biz eden\u2026
\nAtadan kalma gelenek, g\u00f6reneklerimizi\u2026
\nAma en ba\u015fta sevgiyi, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcy\u00fc, terbiyeyi ve sayg\u0131y\u0131\u2026
\nKaybettik\u2026
\n\u00d6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc yitirdik! <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nas\u0131l ki T\u00fcrk bir kimlik bunal\u0131m\u0131ndaysa, ne istedi\u011fini, hangi yolu tutaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, aidat\u0131 ve ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, hangi tarafa ait oldu\u011fu hakk\u0131nda bir fikir sahibi de\u011filse\u2026 M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar da bu kimlik bunal\u0131m\u0131 ya\u015famakta. \u00dcz\u00fcl\u00fcyorum\u2026 \u00dcz\u00fclmekle birlikte biliyorum ki bu bunal\u0131mlar, bu zor s\u00fcre\u00e7 kendini bulma, benli\u011fini kazanma yolunda gerekli! \u0130nsan psikolojisi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131nda bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, yani birey baz\u0131nda, bireyden yola \u00e7\u0131karak … <\/p>\n