{"id":1830,"date":"2017-08-12T06:39:39","date_gmt":"2017-08-12T06:39:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/?p=1830"},"modified":"2017-08-12T08:57:56","modified_gmt":"2017-08-12T08:57:56","slug":"tepki-boeyle-olmaz-olmamali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/?p=1830","title":{"rendered":"Tepki b\u00f6yle olmaz, olmamal\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131ramad\u0131m a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nBir kad\u0131na yak\u0131\u015fmaz b\u00f6ylesine tepki\u2026<br \/>\nDeli gibi sevsen de\u2026<br \/>\nT\u00fcm hayallerin y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olsa bile, k\u0131sacas\u0131 sukutu hayale, h\u00fcsrana u\u011fram\u0131\u015f olsan bile bir kad\u0131na, bir T\u00fcrk kad\u0131n\u0131na yak\u0131\u015fan \u015fekilde olmal\u0131d\u0131r tepkin!<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcrt\u00fcler y\u00f6netir insan\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nPara, mal \u2013 m\u00fclk, sevgi, kin, nefret\u2026<br \/>\n\u0130ntikam\u2026<br \/>\nEtki ve tepki\u2026<br \/>\nTepkin b\u00f6yle olmamal\u0131yd\u0131, yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131ramad\u0131m sana!<\/p>\n<p>Ben \u015fahs\u0131m ad\u0131na\u2026<br \/>\n\u00d6z\u00fcr dilerim, bilemedim, yan\u0131ld\u0131m, aldand\u0131m ama\u2026<br \/>\nNe bilgisizlik ne aptall\u0131k ma\u011fduriyetin mazereti olamaz\u2026<br \/>\nBilerek, bilin\u00e7li bir \u015fekilde aldatmak, kand\u0131rmak, yan\u0131ltmak, sa\u011f g\u00f6sterip sol vurmak gibi insan\u0131 bilin\u00e7li bir \u015fekilde yanl\u0131\u015f yola sevk etmek, a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131 yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131ramad\u0131m sana, ay\u0131p ettin \u00e7ok ay\u0131p.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcn yolda&#8230;<br \/>\nAnnem anlat\u0131yor bu seneki T\u00fcrkiye izlenimlerini:<br \/>\n\u201c\u2026Neredeyse bilmem neleri g\u00f6r\u00fcnecek\u2026\u201d<br \/>\nBizzat \u015fahidim, hem burada, Avrupa\u2019da hem T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de\u2026<br \/>\nYak\u0131\u015fm\u0131yor sana!<\/p>\n<p>Sen\u2026<br \/>\nNe Asyal\u0131s\u0131n ne Arap nede bir Avrupal\u0131 kad\u0131n\u2026<br \/>\nGiyimin, ku\u015fam\u0131n, halin \u2013 hareketin, s\u00f6ylemin, insan \u00fczerindeki etkin ve verdi\u011fin, verece\u011fin tepkin\u2026<br \/>\nFarkl\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r sen bir T\u00fcrk kad\u0131n\u0131s\u0131n!<\/p>\n<p>Binlerce y\u0131ll\u0131k bir \u00f6zge\u00e7mi\u015fin, ninelerin, annen olmal\u0131d\u0131r sana \u00f6rnek, sen bir T\u00fcrk kad\u0131n\u0131s\u0131n!<\/p>\n<p>Nas\u0131l ki\u2026<br \/>\nSamimi dini duygular ile kad\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rt\u00fcyorsa, ki ziynet ile asl\u0131nda kast edilen ba\u015ftaki sa\u00e7 de\u011fil \u00f6rne\u011fin kad\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcsleriyse, \u00f6rt\u00fcyorsa buna ra\u011fmen han\u0131m han\u0131mc\u0131k ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nGiyiniyorsa k\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve k\u0131yafeti uyum i\u00e7inde\u2026<br \/>\nKendini bilen insan g\u0131pta ile bakar b\u00f6yle bir \u015fahsiyete\u2026<br \/>\nEvet, evet efendim \u015fahsiyettir bu, \u015fahs\u0131n kendini tan\u0131m\u0131, topluma tan\u0131tmas\u0131d\u0131r!<\/p>\n<p>Hayvan kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda\u2026<br \/>\n\u0130nsan olana hayvan seviyesine inmek yak\u0131\u015fmaz\u2026<br \/>\nHi\u00e7bir \u015fekilde ve hi\u00e7bir zaman yak\u0131\u015fmaz\u2026<br \/>\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan \u00f6z\u00fcnde ne kadar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen bir varl\u0131ksa, Allah ona bir o kadar uzak g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u00fcl\u00fck bah\u015fetmi\u015ftir. Hayvanlar olacaklar\u0131, olabilecekleri his eder AMA insan hem his edebilir hem d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ileriyi g\u00f6rme kabiliyetine sahiptir. Yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131ramad\u0131m sana, kad\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131na ki kad\u0131n hassas, nadide, ince ve zarif bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r, duygu dolu, karma\u015f\u0131k hisler yuma\u011f\u0131(!)<\/p>\n<p>\u015eort giyidin diye hayvan seni taciz eder, edebilir\u2026<br \/>\nAma sen tepkini daha \u00e7ok \u015fort giyerek, daha dar \u015fortlar giyerek g\u00f6sterirsen (\u2026)<br \/>\nBu hayvanlar\u0131 hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karm\u0131\u015f olmuyor musun?<\/p>\n<p>A\u011fz\u0131m a\u00e7\u0131k kald\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nAnam\u0131n k\u00f6y\u00fc\u2026<br \/>\nHaliyle k\u00f6y insan\u0131 AMA yeminle y\u00fczde doksan\u0131, belki bir fazlas\u0131 Atat\u00fcrk evlad\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nBodrum depreminde kimi kendini bilmez demi\u015f ki:<br \/>\n\u201cC\u0131b\u0131ldak gezdikleri i\u00e7in Allah cezaland\u0131rd\u0131\u201d<br \/>\n\u0130stanbul\u2019a \u201ciki ad\u0131m\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn yani, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn, bir ak\u0131nc\u0131 k\u00f6y\u00fc, y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r \u015fehre \u201ciki ad\u0131m\u201d mesafede(!)<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan dedi\u011fin, al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n esiri, yeti\u015fti\u011fi ortam\u0131n k\u00f6lesi\u2026<br \/>\nBug\u00fcnden yar\u0131na de\u011fi\u015fmez, de\u011fi\u015fmez ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yap\u0131s\u0131 ne ruh hali, \u00f6zellikle alg\u0131s\u0131 ve g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri\u2026<br \/>\nSen bir T\u00fcrk kad\u0131n\u0131s\u0131n\u2026<br \/>\n\u00d6z\u00fcn, s\u00f6z\u00fcn, halin \u2013 hareketin\u2026<br \/>\nAnneci\u011fin, ninelerin\u2026<br \/>\nSen bilmeyeceksin de kim bilecek T\u00fcrk erke\u011fini?<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcrk\u00fcn erke\u011fi\u2026<br \/>\nA\u00e7\u2026<br \/>\nA\u00e7, a\u00e7, a\u00e7\u2026<br \/>\nBir\u00e7o\u011fu \u00f6mr\u00fcnde evlenene kadar kad\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00f6rmemi\u015f, dokunmam\u0131\u015f ne kad\u0131n ruhuna ne tenine\u2026<br \/>\n\u015eortun yeri, zemin-i sayfiye\u2026<br \/>\n\u015eehrin g\u00f6be\u011finde\u2026<br \/>\nBir T\u00fcrk kad\u0131n\u0131na yak\u0131\u015fan ortam ve mek\u00e2na uygun haldir, giyim \u2013 ku\u015fam, bilgili ve bilin\u00e7li, \u00f6zellikle bilin\u00e7li harekettir bence.    <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131ramad\u0131m a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131\u2026 Bir kad\u0131na yak\u0131\u015fmaz b\u00f6ylesine tepki\u2026 Deli gibi sevsen de\u2026 T\u00fcm hayallerin y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olsa bile, k\u0131sacas\u0131 sukutu hayale, h\u00fcsrana u\u011fram\u0131\u015f olsan bile bir kad\u0131na, bir T\u00fcrk kad\u0131n\u0131na yak\u0131\u015fan \u015fekilde olmal\u0131d\u0131r tepkin! D\u00fcrt\u00fcler y\u00f6netir insan\u0131\u2026 Para, mal \u2013 m\u00fclk, sevgi, kin, nefret\u2026 \u0130ntikam\u2026 Etki ve tepki\u2026 Tepkin b\u00f6yle olmamal\u0131yd\u0131, yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131ramad\u0131m sana! Ben \u015fahs\u0131m ad\u0131na\u2026 \u00d6z\u00fcr &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/?p=1830\" class=\"more-link\"><span class=\"screen-reader-text\">\u201eTepki b\u00f6yle olmaz, olmamal\u0131\u201c<\/span> weiterlesen<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1830"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1830"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1830\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1836,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1830\/revisions\/1836"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1830"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1830"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wordpress.gurbuz.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1830"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}