Haliyle\u2026
\nBen onlar de\u011filim, yoksa bir do\u011fa facias\u0131n\u0131, Allah\u2019\u0131n Recep\u2019e ve yanda\u015flar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 bir gazab\u0131 olarak yorumlamam laz\u0131md\u0131. Ge\u00e7mi\u015f olsun \u0130stanbul halk\u0131na. Allah\u2019a \u00e7ok \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr validem, ye\u011fenlerim sa\u011f ve salim. Akrabalarda maddi hasarlar\u2026
\nCana gelmesinde, ba\u015fa gelen mala gelsin. Allah c\u00fcmlemizi beterinden korusun.<\/p>\n
Pedofili\u2026
\nYani s\u00fcbyanc\u0131l\u0131k, o\u011flanc\u0131lar, lezbiyenler veya homoseks\u00fceller\u2026
\nAma ille pedofiller\u2026
\nSiyaset ile u\u011fra\u015fan, insan psikolojisiyle, bilimsel veriler \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sosyolojiylede u\u011fra\u015fmal\u0131 bence. Benim bili\u015fimci olmam, mesela karde\u015fimin bankac\u0131 olmas\u0131 bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi de\u011fi\u015ftirmez. Tamam, karde\u015f mesle\u011fi ile ilgili bu konularla u\u011fra\u015fmak zorunda, biraz da onun i\u00e7in yay\u0131nlad\u0131m d\u00fcn yay\u0131nlad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131. Psikoloji ve sosyoloji demi\u015fken, haberlerden duymu\u015fsunuzdur mutlaka, N\u00fcfus Kanunu de\u011fi\u015fti.
\nSiyasi a\u00e7\u0131dan t\u00fcrbanl\u0131 yosmalar\u2026
\n\u00d6rne\u011fin Merve Kavak\u00e7\u0131\u2026
\nAnadolu kad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 t\u00fcm bu yazd\u0131klar\u0131mdan soyutlayarak yazaca\u011f\u0131m yazacaklar\u0131m\u0131\u2026
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Anadolu kad\u0131n\u0131n b\u00f6yle soytar\u0131l\u0131klarla u\u011fra\u015fmaya ne vakti vard\u0131r, ne y\u00fcre\u011fi iman dolu buna izin verir!<\/p>\n
Hep dedi\u011fimdir bir damla pa\u00e7avra ay\u0131p \u00f6retendir ama ne ahlak ne namus yerine ge\u00e7ebilir. Hepsi insan ruhunda, beynin k\u0131vr\u0131mlar\u0131nda, tabiat\u0131nda sakl\u0131d\u0131r.
\nYok\u2026
\nDe\u011fil, su\u00e7u hep erkeklere atmayal\u0131m l\u00fctfen. Han\u0131mlar\u2026
\nElinizi vicdan\u0131n\u0131za koyarak okuyun l\u00fctfen \u015fimdi gelecek olanlar\u0131\u2026
\nAr\u015fivlerim meydanda, hep savunmu\u015fumdur bu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fc, hatta uzunca bir makale yazmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m bu konuda, bitiremedim, sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m. \u015eark insan\u0131\u2026
\nYa\u015fam felsefesi garp insan\u0131na nazaran \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 AMA \u00f6zellikle garp ve \u015fark kad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 bir noktada bulu\u015fturan bir ger\u00e7ek var, neden b\u00f6yledir bu ya\u015f\u0131ma gelmeme ra\u011fmen anlayabilmi\u015f de\u011filim.
\nFreud\u2019un \u201ckad\u0131nlar ne ister\u201d sorusundan \u00e7ok \u00f6nce kad\u0131nlar neden b\u00f6yledir diye sormas\u0131 gerekirdi asl\u0131nda.<\/p>\n
Hepiniz\u2026
\nBir g\u00fcn geldi gelin oldunuz veya daha olacaks\u0131n\u0131z\u2026
\nAMA\u2026
\nEminim \u201chepiniz\u201d daha k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdan itibaren annelerinizden \u201c\u015fik\u00e2yet\u201d ettiklerini duymu\u015f veya ki buras\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli, BIZZAT \u015fahit oldunuz birtak\u0131m olaylara\u2026
\nMesela gelin kaynana, gelin elti \u00e7eki\u015fmesine(!)
\nHi\u00e7 merak edip hem psikolojik hem sosyolojik a\u00e7\u0131dan bu gelin, kaynana \u2013 elti \u201c\u00fc\u00e7gen\u201d ili\u015fkisini\u2026
\n\u015eimdi s\u0131ra erkeklerde\u2026
\n\u201cErkek\u201d karde\u015f, a\u011fabey, koca, baba vesaire \u201cbask\u0131s\u0131\u201d alt\u0131nda yatan \u201colgular\u0131\u201d ara\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131n\u0131z, kendinize izah etmeye, anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131n\u0131z mi?<\/p>\n
Bir\u00e7ok T\u00fcrk kad\u0131n\u0131 \u201c\u00e7ocuk gelin\u201d olgusunun neden kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda de\u011fildir\u2026
\nNeden canla \u2013 ba\u015fla bu \u00e7irkin ve >>> sap\u0131k <<< ger\u00e7ekler kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda can siper hane bir m\u00fccadele vermemektedir?<\/p>\n
Yan\u0131t\u0131 \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 oldu\u011fu kadar basittir\u2026
\nAmerika\u2019da, Filistinli bir aile i\u00e7eresinde ya\u015fanan bir facia, bir cinayet\u2026
\nBilim insanlar\u0131n\u0131 bu konuyu \u00e7ok y\u00f6nl\u00fc ara\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131na vesile olmu\u015ftur\u2026
\nOlay\u2026
\n\u00c7ok boyutludur, SIYASI yan\u0131 oldu\u011fu kadar, ter\u00f6r ve toplumsal yan\u0131\u2026
\nMaddi ve kriminolojik boyutlar\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Olay\u0131 ve boyutlar\u0131n\u0131 anlatmayaca\u011f\u0131m\u2026
\nBulgular ile\u2026
\nYALIN bulgular ile yetinece\u011fim\u2026
\nSadece \u015fu kadar\u0131n\u0131 bilmeniz gerekir\u2026
\nBir anne, evet bir anne\u2026
\n\u00d6zbe\u00f6z anne ve baba\u2026
\nBaba k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 \u201cdo\u011frarken\u201d anne\u2026
\nK\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 tutuyor ki baba daha kolay \u00e7ocu\u011funu \u00f6ld\u00fcrs\u00fcn(!)<\/p>\n
Bilim insanlar\u0131n\u0131n vard\u0131\u011f\u0131 sonu\u00e7 ki\u2026
\nD\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn yani, anne evlad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclmesine yard\u0131m etmekle kalm\u0131yor, kocas\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcrmesi i\u00e7in \u00fcstelik tahrik ediyor. Var\u0131lan sonu\u00e7 hem kad\u0131n hem erkek a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u201ckorkun\u00e7\u201d.
\n\u00d6ld\u00fcrme sebepleri\u2026
\nDedi\u011fim gibi kendileri Filistinli m\u00fclteci, yani \u201cbeyaz\u201d tenli\u2026
\nK\u0131zlar\u0131\u2026
\n\u0130zinsiz hem har\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmak i\u00e7in hem aile b\u00fct\u00e7esine katk\u0131da bulunmak i\u00e7in ad\u0131 laz\u0131m de\u011fil, bir hamburgercide \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor, gece vardiyas\u0131 dahil HEM ki su\u00e7un b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bu\u2026
\nG\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc bir zenci gence kapt\u0131rm\u0131\u015f\u2026
\nG\u00f6n\u00fcl bu, hani derler ya ota da konar b.ka da!<\/p>\n
Bu y\u00fczden k\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcyorlar.
\nHani hep iddia ederim ya insan sosyal bir varl\u0131k\u2026
\nKad\u0131n ki\u2026
\nKad\u0131n kad\u0131n\u0131n \u201cesas\u201d d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131(!) K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, \u00e7ekememezlik? Bilmiyorum a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131!
\nBilim insanlar\u0131 etrafl\u0131ca sebepleri ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor, de\u011fi\u015fik nedenleri de g\u00f6zeterek vard\u0131klar\u0131 sonu\u00e7 ki her iki cins i\u00e7inde ge\u00e7erli:<\/p>\n
Bu gibi olaylara kar\u0131\u015fan ki\u015filerin ortak \u00f6zelli\u011fi\u2026
\nE\u011fitimlerinin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck d\u00fczeyde olmas\u0131\u2026
\nMahalle bask\u0131s\u0131 denilen olgunun ya\u015famlar\u0131nda ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc bir yer almas\u0131\u2026
\nHani millet ne der meselesi\u2026
\nGenelde erke\u011fin AMA \u00f6zelde kad\u0131n\u0131n bu gibi olaylara \u00f6nayak olmas\u0131n\u0131n, yani tasvip etmesinin alt\u0131nda yatan ger\u00e7e\u011fin, \u015fahs\u0131n\u0131n sosyal \u00e7evresi i\u00e7eresinde daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u015fekilde tan\u0131nmas\u0131, konumunun ve sosyal \u201cterfiinin\u201d alt\u0131nda yatmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Bence korkun\u00e7, korkun\u00e7 bir ger\u00e7ek\u2026
\nK\u00f6r bir cehalet\u2026
\nMillet ne derse desin, O benim evlad\u0131m, kan\u0131mdan kan, can\u0131mdan can\u2026
\nPsikolojik a\u00e7\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda\u2026
\nKi bununda bir\u00e7ok \u00f6rne\u011fi vard\u0131r*, zor ile, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fckle edinilen bir konumun, ki\u015fi nazar\u0131nda daha de\u011ferli oldu\u011fu kan\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r(!)
\nEzeceksin, ezileceksin ki kadir k\u0131ymet bilesin!???<\/p>\n
*Mesela tahrikatlar, askeriye, \u00f6\u011frenci birlikleri vesaire.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Haliyle\u2026 Ben onlar de\u011filim, yoksa bir do\u011fa facias\u0131n\u0131, Allah\u2019\u0131n Recep\u2019e ve yanda\u015flar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 bir gazab\u0131 olarak yorumlamam laz\u0131md\u0131. Ge\u00e7mi\u015f olsun \u0130stanbul halk\u0131na. Allah\u2019a \u00e7ok \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr validem, ye\u011fenlerim sa\u011f ve salim. Akrabalarda maddi hasarlar\u2026 Cana gelmesinde, ba\u015fa gelen mala gelsin. Allah c\u00fcmlemizi beterinden korusun. Pedofili\u2026 Yani s\u00fcbyanc\u0131l\u0131k, o\u011flanc\u0131lar, lezbiyenler veya homoseks\u00fceller\u2026 Ama ille pedofiller\u2026 Siyaset ile … <\/p>\n