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<\/p>\nHalbuki ben birdenbire \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131n\u0131 tercih ederim\u2026
\n\u00d6\u011frettiler, \u00f6\u011frendim\u2026
\n\u00d6\u011frenmek zorunda kald\u0131m, \u00f6ld\u00fcrmeyi\u2026
\nTercihim\u2026
\nYa\u015fatmak, ya\u015fa ve ya\u015fat. Bug\u00fcne kadar kim \u015fiddet ile, bask\u0131 ile adam olmu\u015f ki\u2026
\nBiz olal\u0131m?<\/p>\n
VE EVET\u2026
\nDayak bazen ger\u00e7ekten gerekli ve etkilidir\u2026
\nKimi zaman\u2026
\nKelimelerin bile \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc etkileri olabilir!<\/p>\n
\u0130nsan v\u00fccudundaki\u2026
\n\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc kaburgan\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 bilir misiniz?<\/p>\n
Hep anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131m\u2026
\nBilgi\u2026
\nAma do\u011frusu ama ger\u00e7e\u011fi\u2026
\n\u0130nsan ve anatomisi, insan ve psikolojisi\u2026
\nNas\u0131l istersin, tercihin nedir\u2026
\nNas\u0131l olsun, tercih senin\u2026
\nK\u0131rk kat\u0131r m\u0131 k\u0131rk sat\u0131r m\u0131?<\/p>\n
Yoksa\u2026
\nRuhen mi \u00e7\u00f6kerteyim seni?
\n\u00d6l\u00fcm\u00fcn benim elimden mi olsun?
\n\u00c7abuk ve kati\u2026
\nYoksa\u2026
\nYava\u015f yava\u015f \u00f6lmeyi mi tercih edersin?<\/p>\n
Pippi Langstrumpf Almancas\u0131\u2026
\nT\u00fcrk\u00e7e terc\u00fcmesi Pipi Uzun\u00e7orap, \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumun bir izlencesi. \u00c7ok severdim, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir k\u0131z\u2026
\nK\u0131pk\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 uzun sa\u00e7lar\u0131, pasakl\u0131 haliyle bin bir maceran\u0131n kahraman\u0131.<\/p>\n
Yarat\u0131c\u0131s\u0131\u2026
\nAstrid Anna Emilia Lindgren\u2026
\n\u0130sve\u00e7li\u2026
\n\u00c7ocuklar i\u00e7in yaz\u0131lan kitaplar aras\u0131nda \u201cd\u00fcnya literat\u00fcr\u00fcne\u201d girmi\u015f bir eser!<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Ad\u0131na d\u00fczenlenen bir \u00f6d\u00fcl t\u00f6reninde, yalan olmas\u0131n tam hat\u0131rlam\u0131yorum\u2026
\nYa bir an\u0131s\u0131 veya bir hik\u00e2yeyi dile getirir\u2026
\nVE\u2026
\nD\u00fcnya de\u011fi\u015fir!<\/p>\n
Yok\u2026
\nGer\u00e7ekten bu olay ile d\u00fcnya, kimi \u00fclkelerde kanunlar de\u011fi\u015fir\u2026
\nBak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131(!)<\/p>\n
Durrr\u2026 Bilginin, bilmenin verdi\u011fi \u00f6zg\u00fcvendir benimkisi\u2026 \u00d6d\u00fcl konu\u015fmas\u0131nda buna benzer s\u00f6zler sarf eder. D\u00fcnyay\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirecek s\u00f6zlerdir bunlar.<\/p>\n Anti-otoriter hayat bak\u0131\u015f\u0131na, yeti\u015ftirmeye bir \u00f6rnek\u2026 Kad\u0131n\u2026 Kesici, delici aletler ile alacaksan can\u0131\u2026 Dinleyiciler \u00e7ok etkilenir\u2026 Ve dayak cennetten \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131r, \u00f6zdeyi\u015flerimizdendir\u2026 Korku\u2026 \u015e\u00f6yle alg\u0131la bu yaz\u0131y\u0131\u2026 Hep derim\u2026 Ekme\u011fimi sen mi veriyorsun? \u00d6lm\u00fc\u015f e\u015fek\u2026 Dayakta bir ileti\u015fim \u015feklidir, \u015fiddet\u2026 Soruyorum size: \u0130nsan\u0131z de\u011fil mi? MESAFE\u2026 Sorunun bir par\u00e7as\u0131ysan\u0131z\u2026 Tabii ki\u2026 — Devam edecek\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Halbuki ben birdenbire \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131n\u0131 tercih ederim\u2026 \u00d6\u011frettiler, \u00f6\u011frendim\u2026 \u00d6\u011frenmek zorunda kald\u0131m, \u00f6ld\u00fcrmeyi\u2026 Tercihim\u2026 Ya\u015fatmak, ya\u015fa ve ya\u015fat. Bug\u00fcne kadar kim \u015fiddet ile, bask\u0131 ile adam olmu\u015f ki\u2026 Biz olal\u0131m? VE EVET\u2026 Dayak bazen ger\u00e7ekten gerekli ve etkilidir\u2026 Kimi zaman\u2026 Kelimelerin bile \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc etkileri olabilir! \u0130nsan v\u00fccudundaki\u2026 \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc kaburgan\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 bilir misiniz? Hep anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131m\u2026 Bilgi\u2026 … <\/p>\n
\nGiri\u015fi nereden yapt\u0131m hangi sonuca varaca\u011f\u0131m\u2026
\nIMKANI YOK\u2026
\nTahmin bile edemezsin, mevzuyu birbirine ba\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda anlayacaks\u0131n\u2026
\nAnlamak\u2026
\nEmin olmak\u2026
\nNe kadar \u00f6nemli bilemezsin!<\/strong><\/p>\n
\nBunun ile ya\u015fat\u0131r\u0131m\u2026
\nVE\u2026
\nGerekirse \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcr, \u00f6ld\u00fcrebilirim. Evet, \u00f6lmeye de \u00f6ld\u00fcrmeye de haz\u0131r\u0131m\u2026
\nKefene mefene de ihtiyac\u0131m yoktur benim, laf, s\u00f6z de\u011fildir\u2026
\nNiyettir\u2026
\n\u00c7ok ciddi!<\/p>\n
\nBir anne\u2026
\nVe yaramaz o\u011flu. Kad\u0131nca\u011f\u0131z o kadar b\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ki o\u011flunun yaramazl\u0131klar\u0131ndan g\u00fcn\u00fcn birinde\u2026
\nMutfakta kahvalt\u0131y\u0131 haz\u0131rlarken, yine yaramazl\u0131k yapan o\u011fluna sert bir \u015fekilde der ki\u2026
\nGit bah\u00e7eye bana g\u00fczel bir sopa bul, \u00e7ocuk anlamaz bilmez mi sopay\u0131 neden ve ni\u00e7in istedi\u011fini?
\nAnnesinden korkusuna itaat eder emre\u2026
\nAncak\u2026
\nAradan o kadar uzun bir s\u00fcre ge\u00e7er ki anne meraklanmaya ba\u015flar, korkar\u2026
\n\u00d6ncesinde \u00e7ocu\u011fun dayaktan korktu\u011fu ve bu y\u00fczden gelmedi\u011fini san\u0131r. Tam bah\u00e7eye \u00e7ocu\u011fa bakmak i\u00e7in d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131 anda o\u011flu ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk \u00e7ok \u00fczg\u00fcnd\u00fcr…
\nAnne\u2026
\n\u0130stedi\u011fin gibi bir sopa bulamad\u0131m AMA bak bu ta\u015f\u0131 getirdim sana\u2026
\nElindeki kocaman bir ta\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6sterir\u2026
\nYine yaramazl\u0131k yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda istersen bu ta\u015f\u0131 at bana der annesine(!)<\/p>\n
\nO kadar etkilenir ki o\u011flunun s\u00f6zlerinden, o kadar \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcr ki\u2026
\nAl\u0131r o ta\u015f\u0131 ve mutfakta daima g\u00f6rebilece\u011fi bir yere koyar. Bir uyar\u0131d\u0131r ona, bir abide\u2026
\nKar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011fu, bir \u00e7ocuk\u2026
\nHiddetin, \u015fiddetin, do\u011fan\u0131n, tabi davran\u0131\u015flar b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc daima hat\u0131rlamas\u0131 i\u00e7in bir an\u0131\u2026
\nVe o ta\u015f\u2026
\n\u00c7ocuk b\u00fcy\u00fcyene kadar orada kal\u0131r!<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/www.gurbuz.net\/Turk\/Herzposition-im-Verh\u00e4ltnis-zu-den-Rippen.png\")
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\nBir insan\u0131n can\u0131n\u0131\u2026
\n\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc kaburga hizas\u0131n\u0131 hedefle!<\/p>\n
\nBunun \u00fczerine ba\u015fta \u0130sve\u00e7 olmak \u00fczere bir\u00e7ok \u00fclkede \u00e7ocuk yasalar\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015fiklikler yap\u0131l\u0131r!<\/p>\n
\nCennetin annelerin ayaklar\u0131 alt\u0131nda oldu\u011fu gibi, bazen gerekli\u2026
\nVur elim yoktur\u2026
\nAma gerekti\u011finde de d\u00f6vmekten de geri durmam!<\/p>\n
\nNe b\u00fcy\u00fck bir d\u00fcrt\u00fcd\u00fcr, korkarsan tabii\u2026
\nTerbiye vermenin de\u011fi\u015fik yollar\u0131, terbiye ba\u015fka bir canl\u0131y\u0131 hizaya sokmak, \u015fiddet ile bask\u0131 ile hizaya sokmak ba\u015fka bir \u015feydir. Herkes korkmaz, korkmayabilir\u2026
\nCesaret ile aptall\u0131k aras\u0131 so\u011fan zar\u0131!<\/p>\n
\nG\u00fcncel bir olaya tepki ve VEYA partili pezevenklere, kendine Cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131y\u0131m diyenlere\u2026
\n\u0130stersen bir s\u00f6vg\u00fc!<\/p>\n
\nBir yerde ba\u015flar, bamba\u015fka bir yerde ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131ma bir nokta koyar\u0131m\u2026
\nHayat\u0131n kendisi gibi\u2026
\nBeni okusan ne olur, okumasan ne olur?<\/p>\n
\nDostlu\u011funu mu ar\u0131yorum?
\nCahil olsan ka\u00e7 yazar, bir ordinary\u00fcs olsan neyi ifade eder?<\/p>\n
\nKurttan korkar m\u0131\u2026
\nBir ADIDEN?<\/p>\n
\n\u00c7o\u011fu zaman\u2026
\n\u00c7o\u011fu\u2026
\nBi\u00e7areli\u011fin yok, umursamazl\u0131\u011f\u0131n de\u011fil ba\u015fkaca \u00e7are kalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7aresizli\u011fin bir ifadesi\u2026
\nAma \u00f6yle ama b\u00f6yle bazen kendi a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k duygular\u0131n\u0131n d\u0131\u015fa vurumu olsa bile\u2026
\n\u015eiddet\u2026
\nBug\u00fcne kadar >>> kal\u0131c\u0131 <<< bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm olmam\u0131\u015f, olamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r!<\/p>\n
\nBir Cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131n vas\u0131flar\u0131, g\u00f6revleri aras\u0131nda olmas\u0131 gereken nedir, niye demokrasilerde Cumhurba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 makam\u0131 vard\u0131r?<\/p>\n
\n\u00c7ocuklu\u011funuzu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn\u2026
\nAdaleti\u2026
\nYaramazl\u0131k yapt\u0131n\u0131z veya karde\u015finizdi yapan\u2026
\nNe siz onun \u201cg\u00fcnah\u0131n\u0131 ne o sizinkini\u201d \u00e7ekmeli \u00f6yle de\u011fil mi?
\nVeya karde\u015finizle kavga ediyorsunuz, anne ve baban\u0131z\u0131n adil\u2026
\nAdaletli Ve tarafs\u0131zca hakimli\u011fine ba\u015fvurdunuz\u2026
\n\u015e\u00fcphesiz\u2026
\nBeklentiniz adil \u201ciki \u00e7ift s\u00f6z\u201d VEYA karde\u015finiz ile aran\u0131zda uzla\u015fmaya vesile olmalar\u0131 de\u011fil midir?
\nDe\u011fil miydi?<\/p>\n
\nKarde\u015fim mesafe, mesle\u011fimde ilk \u00f6\u011frettikleri aras\u0131nda yer ald\u0131\u2026
\nMesafe kazanmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fren, bir sorunu \u00e7\u00f6zebilmeniz i\u00e7in asla taraf olmamal\u0131, taraflara mesafeli ve adil yakla\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z ki\u2026
\nHakl\u0131ya hakl\u0131, do\u011fruya do\u011fru, yanl\u0131\u015fa yanl\u0131\u015f diyebilesiniz\u2026
\nVe yine asl\u0131nda ayni soluk i\u00e7eresinde sormay\u0131 ve sorgulamal\u0131y\u0131 da bilmelisiniz kiii\u2026<\/p>\n
\nSorunun \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme asla ula\u015famazs\u0131n\u0131z!<\/p>\n
\nTemsil g\u00f6revi AMA esas g\u00f6revleri aras\u0131ndad\u0131r topluma ve toplum katmanlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131\u2026
\nTARAFSIZ\u2026
\nAdil VE adaletli<\/p>\n
\nKad\u0131nnn\u2026
\nS\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131rma beni, zaten i\u015fim ba\u015f\u0131mdan a\u015fm\u0131\u015f\u2026
\nSonra devam ederim
\n—<\/p>\n